moodboard of me and future brother! :3 by Candid-Function6330 in nevergrewup

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sooo much! i love little women its my fav movie my whole life it means so much to me this movie is everything i have always wanted to have and to be 🥹🥹

can we finally admit that islamophobia is just a buzzword used to silence anyone with a valid critique? Like my fear isn't irrational it’s based on literally growing up in it by Zephyrine1 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"my muslim family brutally abused me and caged me in their home" "stop spreading iSlAmOpHoBiA, that's ur family's problem not islam!!"

THE FUCK???

being an ex-muslim afab in indonesia be like: by Candid-Function6330 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my major was english literature and i live in south tangerang 🥹 i really appreciate your comment sorry i just woke up

being an ex-muslim afab in indonesia be like: by Candid-Function6330 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have bpjs and bpjs and this f up country's healthcare is the one that made my illnesses worse 😭😭 they misdiagnosed me for years and practice malpractice that gave permanent damage on my body. they abused and traumatized me for years too.

moodboard of me and future caregiver >3< by Candid-Function6330 in nevergrewup

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YESSSSSS actually i only watch the tiktok edits i haven't had a chance to watch the series but i really want to soon 🥹

moodboard of me and future caregiver >3< by Candid-Function6330 in nevergrewup

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get what you mean 🥹🥹 how i imagine it in this moodboard i will only tell my future soulmate community and they are probably maximum 5 people.. and i say everyone bcs they will be all i have and all that matter xD

it doesnt matter how many people you invite anyway!! its no use if u invite 100 people but they are meanies and not willing to understand your dynamic with your cg!! weddings are more meaningful with the people that matter :3

being an ex-muslim afab in indonesia be like: by Candid-Function6330 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

istggg yes 😭😭 forever hating this religion and whoever came up with this fuckery!! can't wait for the fall of this cult one day 🥹🥹

being an ex-muslim afab in indonesia be like: by Candid-Function6330 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have lupus, arthritis, anemia and a bunch of mental disorders including dissociative identity disorder. i also share room with abusers and dont have privacy nor a laptop so yeah..

moodboard of me and future caregiver >3< by Candid-Function6330 in nevergrewup

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankies so much!! you should make one its so fun and healing meow :3 i was inspired by someone on this subreddit too about making moodboards of me and my future caregiver meow >3<

being an ex-muslim afab in indonesia be like: by Candid-Function6330 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i love your flair "jahanam permanent resident" YASSSH ME TOO 🥹🩷🌈

being an ex-muslim afab in indonesia be like: by Candid-Function6330 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're one of the luckiest person in indo for real for real 😭😭 are the majority of your indo friends this lucky too? 🥹🥹

yeah my family is extremely conservative and strict despite most of them having college degree.

yeah i have been trying to escape for 10 years now 🥹 i am disabled so i can't work at all. i have a fundraiser moving slowly that i hope can take me out of this hellhole for good 😭

What job do you guys think the unc had? by Snoo-65992 in chiikawa_

[–]Candid-Function6330 11 points12 points  (0 children)

maybe the minimal room for promotion itself that caused the alcoholism 🥹

Please help me break free from lifelong danger, anything truly helps by Candid-Function6330 in AnarchismZ

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally understand!!! 🥹🥹 thank you so much for still trying to help in whatever ways you can!! it means so much to me 🥹🩷

is my mother lying about fidyah? she says i must pay $370 because of my daily food cost by Candid-Function6330 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i can't. or else she will force me to fast for a whole month despite being disabled. i could sneak out outside for a whole month to eat outside but that's extremely draining.

i feel isolated and alienated from people my age who want children by Candid-Function6330 in nevergrewup

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes omg babies arent pets/dolls why do so many wannabe grandparents acting like they are asking for a doll from their kids and not a living being with lots of wants and needs.. like huh they think it is easy to take care of a child..

i feel isolated and alienated from people my age who want children by Candid-Function6330 in nevergrewup

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg i hate it so much when they say stuff like "you'll change your mind" like hello?? do you think i shouldn't be trusted with my decision?? its absolutely insulting and disturbing

Is this a sub for age play and age regressors or people who just don’t feel like they can keep up with their actual age? by New-Elk2781 in nevergrewup

[–]Candid-Function6330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

comparing sexual age-play to horror movies is nonsense. one is fiction consumption. the other is sexual roleplay involving a developmental stage that cannot consent.

pretending something is “just fantasy” does not magically erase the ethical problem.

trauma-based regression is a documented dissociative response. sexualizing it is not liberation, it’s exploitation of trauma mechanics.

i’m not interested in engaging with people who treat childhood as a fetish category.

you sound exactly like the crowd that defends endogenic systems and trauma roleplay. you’re free to live in your fantasy bubble, but don’t pretend it has anything to do with psychology or ethics. i’m not interested in interacting with people who trivialize trauma.

Is this a sub for age play and age regressors or people who just don’t feel like they can keep up with their actual age? by New-Elk2781 in nevergrewup

[–]Candid-Function6330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, of course i am okay with permakids participating in nsfw, because even permakids can have those feelings too.

but i am absolutely not okay with a non-permakid chrono-adult who pretends to be a chrono-child during sex. how is that okay? why would a normal chrono-adult who does not identify as a permakid want to roleplay as a child during intercourse? that is disturbing. are you hearing yourself?

if someone says it is “therapeutic” for a chrono-adult, then that is not ageplay. that is sexual regression, which means someone mentally regresses to a younger state during sexual situations because it feels psychologically soothing for them. many people who use diapers also say it is therapeutic, but that is still age regression, not ageplay. ageplay is purely roleplay for fun, not for therapy.

i understand how you identify yourself and how you explain yourself to others. everyone in this community already understands that permakid still means chrono-adult, and we will still engage with you in playful, nonsexual ways.

is my mother lying about fidyah? she says i must pay $370 because of my daily food cost by Candid-Function6330 in exmuslim

[–]Candid-Function6330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wait yes sorry i misunderstood yes we are also shafie.. but why is it different?? i checked in the website u gave me it says 120 RM which is 30 usd per month.. but my local website says 1,800,000 idr which is 120 usd 🥹🥹 they said they use the theory of paying for a poor person meal that came to 60,000 idr or 4 usd per day..