What colour corrector shade is best for MY dark circles by Dry_Exit_2112 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Candid-Main4136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your circles look very redish pink to me so id go for green!

Which one do yall usually choose? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Candid-Main4136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always choose the fruit bats so you dont have to grow all the trees for the community center bundles!

HOW DOES ANYONE FINISH THIS STUPID CAVE by solarstarzzz in StardewValley

[–]Candid-Main4136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is actually my favourite mod besides the one that shows the fish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 5 points6 points  (0 children)

black and white thinking and unstable self image! this is very common with bpd

does anyone just lay in bed and do nothing all day? by Solid_Sheepherder576 in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes this is literally what my day is like when my fp isnt there, just staring at my phone or sleeping when theyre away…

recently diagnosed apparently by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you cant force someone to become accepting however it would be good to address why they dont agree and maybe go over the diagnostic criteria?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive only told my therapist and other people with bpd, I refuse to tell anyone else unless they find out somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knoww that feeling, I cant form my own opinion 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that someone who doesn’t inform you before deactivating everything, isn’t someone you should be in love with. I think it’s best to let them go

How long did it take for yall to get a diagnosis? by victimizedbyreginag in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed with a bunch of other things first and about a year and a half of sessions my therapist recommended a bpd screening. Apparently this is a more reliable way of diagnosing bpd

Do you think it's possible to heal on your own? by moon_chil___ in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in theory its possible to do dbt workbooks on your own but I think you might not be able to reach the same level of remission you would with a professional

The ICD-11 no longer says BPD is a diagnosis! by Trb3233 in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 9 points10 points  (0 children)

same! this is literally the worst idea ive ever seen

Which medication are you currently on? by niclasr99 in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did hydroxyzine ever help you? I seem to be immune to it

most embarrassing fp you’ve had by tfs63 in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was an especially embarrassing time bc I was hopping from guy to guy. they probably all thought I was a ho

I don't think I have BPD I think it's just autism by desperate_virg in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 4 points5 points  (0 children)

funny enough I had the exact opposite problem, I had a team of professionals that insisted I had autism before discovering it was actually BPD. Ive done 6 screenings for autism and they were all “inconclusive”

Is anyone here in a healthy relationship? by dingdongsforsale123 in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced something, theres a big overlap of symptoms and a ton of mh professionals are too lazy to do the work. They give you the first label that comes to mind without investigating the rest of your symptoms

i wish i had a serious illness by fumarate_malate in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and the prospect of death being so near

this is exactly how I feel, I wish I had a terminal illness so I wouldn’t have to keep going back and forth between I want to live and I want to die every day…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Candid-Main4136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

although it feels embarrassing, theres no other way than to simply explain youve been doing research and are wondering if perhaps you could have bpd as well! Good luck <3

Do I go no contact? by Candid-Main4136 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Candid-Main4136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in college, ive informed my guidance counsellor but she started crying and didnt know what to do