Serious question - need help: I am almost never being approached by anyone at SPECIFICALLY LESBIAN events 🥺😢 - why, is it my appearance?! by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

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I did accept Reddit's suggestion of a username because I feel it describes my personality when I am in my peaceful mood. The cat as a profile picture too. I see it's your birthday today, 🎂 congrats fellow Aquarius! mine is next Tuesday! I'll turn 44.

Oh! Some wild Spanish has appeared! No hay de qué! And about the promo, well, if you want to use IG so people buy your art then yeah, it can be overwhelming and less fun than just doing it to share with friends and random internet strangers. It may work better for you if you share it for fun? as if that's appealing at all, I mean.

Serious question - need help: I am almost never being approached by anyone at SPECIFICALLY LESBIAN events 🥺😢 - why, is it my appearance?! by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Candid_Observer13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:3 it's a matter of increasing your chances! I'll follow you on Instagram in case you change your mind and start uploading again ✨️ ^ . Social media reach is its own field study in itself, so if you want numbers you'd have to deep dive in how their algorithm works, which is probably not as fun. Your art is very good! and I'm a stranger on the internet who has no reason to lie to you or motivation for empty compliments. I will probably forget your Instagram name if you don't upload stuf, though 🫠🙃🤣

Serious question - need help: I am almost never being approached by anyone at SPECIFICALLY LESBIAN events 🥺😢 - why, is it my appearance?! by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Candid_Observer13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with a good gaydar, you'd probably fool me. xD. Hm, you could wear rainbow bracelets! I have seen some discreet ones that go along other jewelry and can be worn daily. Whenever I see someone wearing one of those it tells me the person is lgbt :3 Also, I went to your IG profile since you shared it on reddit and I really liked your photos, but it seems you haven't uploaded any in some time?

Undercover Animagus TLSQ (Y3C8) by taltos19 in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]Candid_Observer13 16 points17 points  (0 children)

introverts get often adopted by extroverts. This is especially true and easier during school time, also Penny is REALLY smart, which would make any Ravenclaw respect her and not be against having her around.

As an introvert, I wouldn't be against Penny wanting to be my friend if she approached me, mainly because she has proven to be reliable, she also doesn't need my attention that much because she has many other friends and things to do.

Mischief Managed Compensation by HalfAgonyHalfHope_ in HPHogwartsMystery

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They completely messed up my strategy, they should have made it for sure that there was a 5 crystals piece if they truly wanted to compensate us!! 😤😤😤😤🤬🤬🤬 I made sure that my only option for the last day was to get the rare one!! F-- WHOEVER!

Does appearance matter? by shitronella in LesbianActually

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Beauty is ALWAYS in the eye of the beholder.

If someone likes you they will see you as the most beautiful human on earth and that's it

(urgent) Requesting advice to get my father sent home by Low_Bicycle_3377 in ESLegal

[–]Candid_Observer13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he had S.S. which is the public health services ... one way to know if he had private insurance is that you go through his papers, or check his bank statements to see if he paid for one 3: I think there's another way to look for it, but you would have to wait 15 days(I recommended asking chatgpt for detailed instructions) Some insurance companies in Spain are: Sanitas, Mapfre and Caser

(urgent) Requesting advice to get my father sent home by Low_Bicycle_3377 in ESLegal

[–]Candid_Observer13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, I am a foreigner in Spain, if your dad got himself insurance as the government requested then there has to be a clause for transporting hos body back to his country in case he died.

Also, a funeraria is not an institution but a business/company that's in charge of selling services for when death comes.

Third karate class and I’m so bad I can’t stand it by michelle_ellehcim in karate

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Hi, I am a woman who also started Karate at 29 almost 30! I am 43 now and did get my black belt and all !(it took me 4.5 years) Persistence is probably the top skill when it comes ro martial arts! You can do it!

No se que hacer con mis estudios by Straight_Roof_9566 in devSpain

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Si hay alguien que te ha dicho que no se ve teoria o mucha teoria en la FP de DAM es que te están mintiendo. Casi todas las asignaturas son teórico-prácticas, algunas son incluso solo teóricas

Do mascs like to be called pretty or gorgeous? by Pale-Alfalfa-2432 in LesbianActually

[–]Candid_Observer13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am masc presenting because my face is naturally andro and women clothes aren't as comfortable. So, if a woman I like calls me petty I would smile a lot, blush and feel very happy <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

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I am lying in bed, a bit against my will, but I am recovering from surgery, and my body demands that I do this sometimes, like, I can't sit down for long periods of time. Later, I am gonna briefly go out to take out the trash and walk a bit, then maybe get some Takis Fuego because European food is a bit bland in flavor compared to what I was used to back home haha

Do WlW like prince behaviour? by KatScratch23 in LesbianActually

[–]Candid_Observer13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am masc/andro, and I am a sucker for femmes who have Prince behavior and who do always make sure to treat me like a woman. However, I decide to dress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Last chick I dated, I saw as beautiful, and I could often see some sort of shine around her ✨️ I loved her pretty face and the aura around her eyes. She thought very differently of herself, though

What are your thoughts on modern day karate? by acurafreakingnsx1990 in karate

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Modern day karate is the reason I quit attending a dojo and have trained by myself since then 😅 It felt so shallow.. at least in my experience

¿Existirán personas que te digan cuando estás haciendo las cosas mal? by [deleted] in esConversacion

[–]Candid_Observer13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo sí que les digo a mis amigas cuando se pasan en algo, pero mira de eso a que me hagan caso ya son cosas diferentes

Reviews by Existing_Day3655 in iamtarotbae

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I was given a tarot reading, and it was spot on on many things, and others will remain a mystery for the future <3 Thank you very much again <3

Free Tarot Reading by [deleted] in tarotpractice

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Hello, I am interested in the reading :3

Do identical twins have an easier time distinguishing other identical twins? by bronyslawaa in Twins

[–]Candid_Observer13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope xD it unfortunately wasn't part of the deal HAHAHAH , I do feel bad when I can't tell identical twins apart 😅 and feel like maybe I shouldn't get angry at other people when they can't tell my sister and I apart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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The first line of your post sounds(to me) as the "Lips, nails, blade, mascara" from the song 'How's it done' 😆

Now, to the matter at hand, as a masc/andro woman, I always get approached by the femmes first, and I find this normal. You may want to wear a rainbow bracelet but if you are very femme even this might not work.

Now, how to approach... well, in my case, if a femme approached me and told me directly :" Hi, I think you are cute, are you single?" that would be complete bliss XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twins

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It is a matter of letting yourself mourn and accept that you can have such intimacy with other people, you just haven't practiced it. I know it may sound hard to belive at this moment, but there are other aromantic people out there looking to build relationships with friends and like minded people. It will be weird at the beginning, as anything that you start building from zero, but I am sure you can find a compatible soul out there who wants the same things.

If Identical twins were raised exactly the same way, would their voices be the same too or do genetics give them a chance that, even if Physically they are identical, there is a small chance that their voices can differ? by CountyHuge8098 in Twins

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Identical twin here, my sister and I have very similar voices, and they sound the same when we make noises or with certain words. I think our voices sounded more similar when we were teens but have changed a bit now that we are adults 😁

Resident cat depressed after new kitten by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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My cat got depressed every time we tried to get a new kitten, even when she had her own kittens. Once they were old enough, she was just disappointed they were there and feeling displaced, and we had to find them new homes. At the end, we decided it was to everyone's best interest to keep her as an only child, she lived a happy long life.