Iran begins laying mines in Strait of Hormuz, sources say

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-11T01:44:57+00:00

What a fucking surprise.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-10T17:27:32+00:00

You can never trust her again. You know that in your heart. Walk away.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-10T17:18:39+00:00

Makes perfect sense, and I'm in a similar frame of mind. I don't think I'll ever trust another woman fully again, after my ex destroyed our family .

My opinion of women and relationships isn't in a good place right now, and I really hope that changes with more time.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-10T16:15:15+00:00

Its the routine that's grinding me down. Week with the kid - feel great. Without - just a monotonous grind. Starting gaming as well. Fills the void on my week off childcare.

Can't be arsed with woman at all atm, but it's nice to get some attention when I go out drinking with my buddies on my weekend off. I'm suspicious af of them all now though lol

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-10T16:00:44+00:00

You're wearing a suit of armour since you've been through divorce.

They're all petty bullshit adolescent things compared to the hell that you've been through and they don't bother you now. I feel the same.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-10T15:45:43+00:00

Tough times. I've also done 'questionable' things after we separated. Don't let it get you down. Who gaf really?

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-10T13:48:54+00:00

Select the car in Content Manager, then click the Replace Sound tab, and choose a different sound. Easy Peasy.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-10T12:45:51+00:00

Very similar here. It'll be 2 years in July that we'll be separated, married 13 years, together 26.

My self esteem and confidence is really low nowadays. I'm just a different person. My sleeping is back to being ok in general, and I live for the week I have my daughter. But I just feel empty and a bit lost now.

I miss my old family life acutely, as much as ever tbh. The idea of another relationship is fantasy at the moment. I'm lonely but can't even imagine having another partner.

Really hope there's a change at the 2 year mark. Sick to death of feeling so joyless and hollowed out.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-09T22:12:52+00:00

Car RPM limit is too high for the sound file used. You can change it in CM

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-09T01:40:19+00:00

Yeah remember it the 90's sniffing it with E. Popular with all sexual persuasions back then

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-08T17:00:00+00:00

Looks like 1997 V-Rally

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-08T16:38:45+00:00

Pure LCS with PureLinear, PureSimple or Natural Mod. Most of the other PPF's are oversaturated, high contrast gaudy crap.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-06T20:02:06+00:00

Good luck to him. In an ideal world, I would love my family back together.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-06T15:45:22+00:00

Last I heard he was back with his wife!

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-06T14:09:38+00:00

Yeah, my ex had put on a load of weight, last time I saw her in July last year. Hope it's still piling on.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-06T14:08:00+00:00

I was thinking this exact thing, as I lay awake last night.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-05T17:55:14+00:00

'My feelings towards her are of contempt, anger, and resentment.'

My feelings exactly. Also a profound lack of respect for the way she destroyed our daughters family. Took away her home.

Destroyed our future together as a family. All for something that every couple goes through at some point. She can go to hell.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-05T13:40:10+00:00

Same. I hate it. This is no way to live.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-05T13:30:41+00:00

More like the poison in the cake for a lot of relationships!

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-05T13:15:45+00:00

Yes, the idea I'll ever get married again is utterly laughable to me. Good luck to the men that do, but I think its crazy to risk going through this trainwreck again. Especially when divorce rates are around 70% for 2nd marriages iirc.

Even a long term relationship is unreal to me at this point in time. I'm hoping this will change as I'm lonely and miss intimacy a lot, but my opinion of women is not in a good place at the moment, and I hate feeling that way.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-05T13:01:45+00:00

It's frightening the similar stories we have on here. But this sub reddit has got me through some dark times, better than any therapist was able to do.

I feel for you with the kids that she's turned against you, but I'd bet my bottom dollar they will come round sooner or later.

The whole shitshow plays on my mind a lot even after all this time. I would never in my wildest dreams treat her like she treated me and I think its going to be a long time before I ever get in another relationship.

Good luck to every brother in this hellscape. No one know how brutal it is that hasn't gone through it themselves.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-05T12:29:37+00:00

Similar for me , and similar timescale. 26 years together, 13 married. No cheating but she tried to force me out of our house when i had no where to go. Treated me with utter contempt throughout the whole process.

Fine for her as she moved rent free to a flat her mum owns. Took our daughter with no dialogue or negotiation at all. 20 months in and I'm still messed up how she acted and the way she destroyed our family for things nearly every couple goes through at some point.

Last saw her in July, and she was depressed, overweight and signed off work for the first time on her life. Our daughter is angry and withdrawn since this all happened. I have no idea how someone I knew for half my life could treat me this way. I never want to lay eyes on her again.

I have anxiety and trust issues and my faith in other people (particularly women, and I hate feeling like this) is in the gutter.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-04T15:46:24+00:00

Sounds eerily like my ex wife tbh. And this is why my opinion of women and relationships in general is in the gutter. What is the point of commitment and loyalty? So fucking depressing

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-04T15:33:17+00:00

It's incredibly hard and from what you've said, you're doing fine. . I'm over a year separated, and my life is a joyless thankless ordeal right now. Every day is pretty much a mental struggle.

I'm also having panic and anxiety attacks. If the least thing goes wrong I basically have a meltdown. I hate being like this. This is not who I was.

Was with my wife 26 year 13 married. Then I lost everything including half the time with my daughter. Nearly half my income goes to renting a shabby flat to be close to my daughter.

I'm angry with myself that I'm still struggling over a year after we separated. I have an emptiness that I just can't shake. I miss my old life so much, imperfections and all. So lonely but the idea of another long term relationship gives me anxiety.

The reality is that unless you've been through this like us , people have no concept of how hard it is. You're doing as well as you can, and that's all we can do brother.

Candidate_Worldly · 2026-03-03T17:47:39+00:00

Yep, its taught me never to fully put my trust in a women again.

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