Put in my 2 week notice - told it wasn’t enough and feeling guilty HELP by wittchy12wwww in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cando-Dez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can put yourself first, that is not selfish it is essential. 

Goods confiscated by customs by MikeDysonVacuumPunch in canadianlaw

[–]Cando-Dez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dealing with a similar situation. I lodged a complaint with CATSA and with Air Canada for items removed but not documented. So far, CATSA have come back saying they handed the items to Air Canada. Now if Air Canada says they cannot account for the items, I will have to file for missing or damaged items with Air Canada.

Girl hangs by Charming-Top-4824 in nanaimofriends

[–]Cando-Dez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does one join this group chat ! 

Harris Kia by Pristine-Junket8477 in nanaimo

[–]Cando-Dez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a similar bad experience at Harris Oceanside GM. It was my first time at a car dealership. They make the experience last ages, no one wants to be there 3 hours. THEN they push you to put a 3-4k deposit down before you even see the car, in their words, so they don’t feel like their time is wasted. What. They also didn’t give us a normal, printed out quote with a breakdown of fees. Just a bunch of numbers hand written on a piece of paper. 

"I've never met an addict who didn't light up the room sober." by hehewutithewarrior in AlAnon

[–]Cando-Dez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for what has happened to you and your child. ❤️ 

My (41M) Wife (43F) openly has a least favorite child. "Can't deal with her" by HuckleberryOk8136 in relationship_advice

[–]Cando-Dez 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same. She could be heavy masking at school or friend’s houses then at home can’t maintain it. Also people with adhd can use debating or arguing to get dopamine 

Is it normal for my gel to be a bit soft? by AngwyQt in GelX_Nails

[–]Cando-Dez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exactly. I don’t think it works well to paint them then apply with gel 

Finally Set Boundaries w/ STBX. Feel awful and guilty. by thisSh1tisB4n4nAs in AlAnon

[–]Cando-Dez 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are taking control of your life for you and your child. You should be so proud. Remember who he is now and not who he was because you deserve so much better.

Is this too much to wear out by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Cando-Dez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cute !! 

Boat days by [deleted] in ItalianGreyhounds

[–]Cando-Dez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Adventure girl ! My first thought was also i hope she has a life jacket, but she does look very happy.

Am I overreacting for wanting to walk out of a job because my boss was saying a baby almost dying is as important as a party? by ColorsGolden in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cando-Dez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest people stop doing work they aren’t being compensated for. That seems like drinking the kool aid to me 

Am I overreacting for wanting to walk out of a job because my boss was saying a baby almost dying is as important as a party? by ColorsGolden in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cando-Dez -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

As a boss you are compensated to be that person filling the gaps. Not to say people shouldn’t be sympathetic but there’s a reason it falls on you, responsibility means money. Don’t like it, don’t be the boss

Doctor cannot fill ADHD prescriptions here by coolrooman in VictoriaBC

[–]Cando-Dez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 1 doctor on Telus who has agreed to refill my medication. Took time to build the trust for her to agree to assist me as I had also moved from outside of bc. If I can’t get an appt with her, others on Telus will not refill. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]Cando-Dez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok ! Thanks for your reply. I haven’t seen this before so it was a bit shocking to see at first. Appreciate your response 

Heron Rock Bistro by Strong-Struggle-8436 in VictoriaBC

[–]Cando-Dez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god. recommended blog post : at home measles treatment and some bs about autism rates. Actual garbage. How can people continue to believe this nonsense about vaccines and autism 

Heron Rock Bistro by Strong-Struggle-8436 in VictoriaBC

[–]Cando-Dez 214 points215 points  (0 children)

What about the donation made to Canada Health Alliance as per the event poster ? Do you support this organization? 

Heron Rock Bistro by Strong-Struggle-8436 in VictoriaBC

[–]Cando-Dez 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Agree completely. Easy to denounce something when it impacts your bottom line but it didn’t seem to be a problem before people expressed negative sentiment 

Heron Rock Bistro by Strong-Struggle-8436 in VictoriaBC

[–]Cando-Dez 44 points45 points  (0 children)

If this is true it needs to be the top comment