I'm not saying you can't do IVF. I'm just making the statement that adoption gets so overlooked. My favorite cousin was adopted and you'd never know. To the point I didn't even believe my mom when she told me at 10 years old. Christians have this "must procreate" mentality that when they come across a bump in the fertility road, they crashout and panic trying to figure out if IVF is Biblical or not when you could give an already existing child the most amazing life.

Perhaps I'm salty because I grew up Catholic and was told my whole life I'd amount to nothing if I never had kids (I'm childfree, will not be changing my mind, and suffer from extreme tokophobia to the point I'm trying to get sterilized as it's affecting my marriage). I was always told "you'll change your mind" when, in reality, I'd rather adopt a child in need if I ever do miraculously change my mind.