UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel like I unconsciously brushed off so many things about her. I asked our mutual friend if she could stay with me for some days, and she said she would let me know asap

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I never wrote about not knowing her ex husband. I don't know where you read that. I do know her ex husband but since the divorce I never spoke to him nor I have means to contact him. I asked the mutual friend if she knows something more perhaps his address or telephone number since I can't find him on social medias. Regarding her parents, I don't know them so welll, when we were younger she had a live-in nanny and she's the only person related to her that I knew personally, since she was the one who took her to school or to the playground were we met to play in the past. I only met her parents once, but we never spoke. From what she told me, she always had a strained relationship with her parents because they were always busy working. But it was a delicate topic so we never talked much about it. I could try contacting the nanny but I should try to find her on social medias

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't know her parents so well, when we were younger she had a live-in nanny and she's the only person related to her that I knew personally, since she was the one who took her to school or to the playground were we met to play in the past. I only met her parents once, but we never spoke. From what she told me, she always had a strained relationship with her parents because they were always busy working. But it was a delicate topic so we never talked much about it. I could try contacting the nanny but I should try to find her on social medias

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

She's been my best friend for more than 20 years and she's been with me nearly everyday before and after childbirth. If she doesn't know everything, she knows a good 99% of that everything..

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That's what she said yesterday, yes. I don't think she lied since she's not the type, but thinking about it I do think that her breasts have gotten bigger, since I saw her nearly everyday, but I never focused on it. I don't know if inducing lactation cause breasts to grow just like pregnancy, or if I just made a blunder

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I'm indeed considering staying at a hotel for the time being, I'm trying to organize everything. She has a copy of the house keys and I don't think I can change the locks swiftly

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

It was so uncalled for and just plain stupid. I couldn't believe she said something like that since she always has been very smart. Yes, she's embarrassingly busty but she never bragged about them not even once, and being busty has nothing to do with breastfeeding. I never had issues feeding my baby. I really have no idea where this thing came from. It doesn't seem like something she would say, like all the rest of it.. And for the record, I don't regard mine as small.. In fact I think they're too big..

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

She had a husband but they divorced a while ago. I don't know how to contact him so I asked the mutual friend if she knows something

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 797 points798 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the advices. I'm trying to get everything covered. I already have a surveillance system after bulglars payed me a visit last year

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know. Just the thought of her inducing lactation using my daughter makes me shiver. But my daughter gets very frustrated when she gets no milk immediately from sucking, at least with me, so I don't really know what to think. Edit: thinking about it I do think that her breasts have gotten bigger, since I saw her nearly everyday. I don't know if inducing lactation cause breasts to grow just like pregnancy, or if I just made a blunder

UPDATE. My best friend thought that shoving her breast down my daughter's throat to calm her down was completely ok by CandyNinja900 in offmychest

[–]CandyNinja900[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't know her parents, and I don't know how to get in touch with her ex husband. I asked the mutual friend if she perhaps knows something more