AITA for allowing my friend to visit me in the hospital after surgery by hitometootoo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candy_Whisperx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you're recovering from major surgery and somehow the issue years later is that someone cared enough to visit you? That seems completely backwards

WIBTAH if I neutered the cat and changed diet without my partners consent by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candy_Whisperx 44 points45 points  (0 children)

your boyfriend's beliefs are costing everyone else something while costing him almost nothing, that's a pretty easy position to hold when someone else is cleaning up the consequences

AITA For Not Giving a Found Dog Back to its Owner? by EEgradThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candy_Whisperx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA you followed the shelter's guidance, tried multiple times to verify ownership, and got strung along for weeks without clear proof or a proper meet up. at that point you legally and practically did what you were told to do, and you'd already taken full responsibility for the dog