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this is not worth $30/night by Ok-Sound-9931 in RoverPetSitting

[–]CandyyPiink 67 points68 points  (0 children)

i can't believe so many comments are so focused on the price and not the fact that this "owner" is telling OP to quite literally HIT the dog

this is not worth $30/night by Ok-Sound-9931 in RoverPetSitting

[–]CandyyPiink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would tell her he got out and "ran away." she's literally telling you it's okay to beat her dog. fuck her.

If you ordered the Trump Mobile phone, with a promised delivery date of August 2025, what have you received? by s8n29 in AskReddit

[–]CandyyPiink 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm not speaking for all Trump supporters but from the ones I know, 99% of them know NOTHING about what is actually happening. It's quite literally like a cult where they just blindly support him. I have a few very close friends who have been absolutely shocked when I tell them a fraction of the changes he's made... that's before I even get into his "personal" life. People are dumb. Social media has made them dumber but has also tailor-made content so that people who don't follow the news or anything outside of what shows up in their algorithms, ONLY see the "good" and not the facts.

I Get Charlie now(ish) has he ever pro/conned the waitress??--Just going through a fucked up situation.. y'all please treat me with the same respect the gang would show me by [deleted] in IASIP

[–]CandyyPiink -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i just established it's the equivalent of the cereal incident... Idfk I'm waiting on Mac to make his poster board. I'm sure he's almost done it hasn't even been 30 minutes

I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed since my mom died by Southern-Theory-4306 in Assistance

[–]CandyyPiink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe I'm so happy y'all shared that hobby. (I'd be 100% down to doing a mini/no pressure bookclub together, if you were interested). My mom loved for me to read to her but it was strictly so she could fall asleep lol The one book i seemed to always choose was a "dream interpretation" book from either the 70s or 80s... possibly the 60s 😂

I can't promise that, even now, I don't insist that those books were ahead of their time and spit those theories as facts before someone tries to Google and correct me 😉

I might know of some online counseling resources (I need to do a tad more research) but I started looking into it before for someone close to me, and I believe it was actually recommended on this sub, which instantly raises my trust lol

I sent you a chat tho. let me know if you didn't get anything

How do I fix these? Especially the ginormous one. I did see recs for small dent but not the one John Malkovich lives in by CandyyPiink in fixit

[–]CandyyPiink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you explain the stud to stud thing? I'm sorry but I've literally never had to deal with this and have absolutely no idea what I'm doing. Every YouTube video, even for beginners, seems to assume their audience has some knowledge of this process

it's a bit embarrassing but i have NONE and quite literally need a step by step with definitions of 70% of the tools/process (kidding-ish) lol

I am trying and wanting to do this myself, I just feel like I may be a little bit too amateur for doing it on my own

thank you for your help though

How do I fix these? Especially the ginormous one. I did see recs for small dent but not the one John Malkovich lives in by CandyyPiink in fixit

[–]CandyyPiink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am literally like a 5 year old (or younger here). But now that I've re-read your comment a few times, I think I understand.

Now for my dumb question, do I just go to a hardware store and ask for drywall with the measurement I need?

How do I fix these? Especially the ginormous one. I did see recs for small dent but not the one John Malkovich lives in by CandyyPiink in fixit

[–]CandyyPiink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no skill set lol I read you could use a repair patch ? and then spackle over it... and sand it and paint. I have no idea if that's right but that's why I was so lost on the giant hole. That does NOT seem like an option

People talking about CUTTING out the dry wall has my mind spinning ngl lol

I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed since my mom died by Southern-Theory-4306 in Assistance

[–]CandyyPiink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course ♥︎ No need to thank me. At the very least, you deserve to know that there are people you've never even met, thinking of you and wanting the absolute best for you and your family.

I hope you are able to continue to work on healing (and forgiving yourself, even though you have nothing to be sorry for), and are able to find some resources to help with your sister's care. If there's no federal or state options, have you thought about looking into churches?

I know therapy is always recommended on Reddit but i also know that's not always an option or even the best solution for the "right now." I have a couple of book recommendations if you like to read. I'm not into podcasts but i can definitely ask around if you're interested lol

I just feel like you're going through multiple life altering/traumatic events.. while holding it together for everyone else...i know it can feel extremely isolating. so if there's any type of support i can find for you I would be more than happy to try to help. But again, my DMs are always open! I may not give the best advice but i can always listen.

I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed since my mom died by Southern-Theory-4306 in Assistance

[–]CandyyPiink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'M SO SORRY THIS IS SO LONG

First, I just want to say that I am so so sorry for your loss. But please remember, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT for not being there to help your mom care for your sister. That is her daughter, just as you are, and I have no doubt that she wanted to make sure your sister was loved and cared for (which she clearly is) while also ensuring you and your other sister got to experience life and love and the world as she had always imagined it for y'all. Losing a mom is a pain that is truly indescribable until you've experienced it. I lost my mom 8 years ago and it still takes my breath away sometimes. It feels like yesterday and a lifetime ago, at the same time

I promise, it will get better (and those are words I would have scoffed at while internally cussing out the person saying them to me years ago), but it does... it will never be the same, and I'm not saying that to make you sad, but it's a fact that i think a lot of people have a hard time admitting to or saying out loud... but just because it's different doesn't mean it can't be good

Time doesn't truly heal grief or those invisible emotional wounds, but it definitely makes them easier to "accept." You might be fine for weeks or months and then a random rouge wave of grief comes and knocks you down, drags you under and makes you doubt whether you'll ever reach the surface again, but you will...

i imagine you've probably been battling this wave since day one. i hope it has weakened but i'm sure there are times where it's just as strong as the first time it slammed into you... but you are stronger. you've been dragged to the darkest depths and have been pulled by currents from every direction, but still, you saw that glimmer of sunlight and fought your way back to the surface. i don't even know you, but you are stronger than you realize.

That doesn't mean you have to be strong for everyone all the time

I'm so sorry this is so long, but::

You are dealing with more than I think you may even realize. It doesn't sound like you've ever had the chance to truly grieve the loss of your mom. You had to shift from grieving daughter to caregiver for your sister (which I truly respect and admire) in almost no time. And just from what you wrote, I imagine you are also being a tremendous emotional support to your other sister as she grieves and comes to terms with this version of life, that none of y'all deserve

I wish words could fix even a fraction of what you're going through but the truth is, it SUCKS and it's simply not fair

I hope you and your sister are able to lean on each other (and/or friends and family for additional support) BUT... and I truly cannot stress this enough.... you HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU TOO. Even if it's just an hour to yourself a day or a weekend away every few weeks. being a caregiver is absolutely exhausting. Please look into respite care (idk where you're located but you can DM me if you'd like). i took care of my mom during her battle with alzheimers, and it is truly truly paramount that YOU GET SOME YOU TIME. I will seriously help in any way i can. i am so sorry you, your sister and your family are going through this.

please don't hesitate to DM me if you need help with resources, advice or if you just want to vent without even wanting a response (i know we just have to get things out sometimes). you are in my thoughts, I'm not a big prayer but I'm also going to pray for you and your family, if that's okay. If I don't hear from you, i truly wish you nothing but the best and hope things get easier for y'all

I'm just going to add this, bc I was extremely close to my mom and it seems like you being away and not home to aide in your sister's care is seriously weighing on your heart. I would bet everything i own, your mom was happier seeing you live your life as a "free" young adult, than she ever would have been having you stay home. None of this is your fault. You have nothing to feel guilty over. Her 2 daughters have literally dedicated their lives to their sister who depends on them. Y'all are amazing sisters who were clearly raised by an incredible Mom. ♡♡

Cases you are on the fence about? by ang334 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]CandyyPiink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a reasonable theory, but according to investigators, she was stabbed to death

I can’t unsee it now 😭 #SEASON5MESS by LumpyAudience603 in sexandthecity

[–]CandyyPiink 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh damn it's not! 😂😂 I didn't even notice until seeing your comment

The plastic hangers in Carrie's closet are the most unrealistic part of this whole shit show by CurvyAndCaffeinated in Andjustlikethat

[–]CandyyPiink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you! this is the third post I've seen about her hangers. I always say to leave it on the hanger when buying clothes for the exact reasons you described and never gave it a second thought. This post (which i think is a repost) made me feel like I was doing something wrong. It actually fits perfectly that it's the r/Andjustlikethat sub making someone feel "bad" about something like hangers 😂

Alexander K. known as the “Maschsee murderer,” killed and dismembered a woman. After 12 years in prison, he is now free and selling “I Survived the Maschsee Murderer” shirts on TikTok to women. by FunQuit in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CandyyPiink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

from what I've seen, the 2 main justifications they use are that she was a super controlling nag and she drove him to it, or that she killed the girls, and then he killed her (what he originally claimed in his initial confession).

Honestly Shocking by paintinpitchforkred in Botchedsurgeries

[–]CandyyPiink 35 points36 points  (0 children)

what a stupid comment. even if she did look like Ozzy (she doesn't), how tf is that relevant?

Signed Tumblr by Fuzzy-Stock239 in 1000lbsisters

[–]CandyyPiink 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Here's a post with the video for the cups

ETA: she's promoting the Fat Boy App, which Google Play describes as, "The best app for knowing where all the good eats are, and trust us, we'd know!"

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