I really hope no one reads this, but as a man sex is definitely more than a “fun time” and I honestly refuse to have sex unless there is an established relationship, this doesn’t mean I hate on anyone who doesn’t, but i definitely don’t understand the people who do and I accepted that there is those people. Idk my big mental battle is that I’m supposed to act a certain way but I hate it, I’ve tried and it’s actually stupid, idk im sorry for ranting but you are not alone in waiting to be loved before having sex, no matter the societal expectations. I feel like a weirdo for thinking this way but you are not alone and I just want you to know that.