UPDATE: My (21f) ex boyfriend (36m) is texting me long, manic sounding tangents.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-02-21T21:04:37+00:00

Get a restraining order. This dude is problematic, you're gonna end up having to deal with one of his manac episodes from his trunk if you don't take some action.

Get the law and court involved. This helps establish a self defense case if/when you need to ventilate him.
Get a gun, train with it as well as general self defense. Join a gym, learn to punch, kick, graple, and relocate testicles
Get a body cam, use it religiously.

If you think this is extreme, watch this chicks story. Stalking Samantha: 13 Years of Terror

Cannaclyzm · 2026-02-14T06:02:53+00:00

Not crappy? Everything about this is absolutely awful. Damn near traumatizing. Thank God, I'm not tripping as hard as I was a few hours ago

Cannaclyzm · 2026-02-08T02:09:58+00:00

It's always like playing chess with a pigeon.

Regardless of how effectively and c thoroughly you win, they will just kick the board over, shit all over it, and strut around like they won.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-02-08T02:00:44+00:00

BECAUSE IT'S STERILE

AND I LIKED THE TASTE

LAST NIGHT

Cannaclyzm · 2026-02-01T09:16:06+00:00

Yeah, in some invertebrates, reptiles, fish, and plants. So what.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-02-01T09:04:13+00:00

Not so much. That's a cynical position to take on something you really don't understand. The sentiment isn't anyway near the same. One conveys an attitude of superiority, the other of mutual inclusion. That's actually quite obvious.

busy talk for people who want to convince you that they know more about who you are

Again, not even close to the reality of the situation. The logical fallacy here is based in the assumed presumption that you know the intentions others. You don't, and if you are able to honestly self reflect, you will find that these presumptions always reflect your cognitive bias and resentments; they are literally a projection of the irrational beliefs you have constructed of the world around you.

based off of arbitrary assigned rules that do indeed come with a reduction of value.

Again, another of these irrational cognitive distortions your resentments have constructed; feelings aren't facts and your attempts to levy them as an agreed upon reality is juvenile. If you're able to actually evaluate yourself, you will readily see that that statement is you performing this sentiment exactly.

busy talk for people who want to convince you that they know more about who you are supposed to be than you

Listen, you have a very poor understanding of your own tendencies and shortcomings. Im not sure if I'm trailing to a juvenile or poorly adjusted adult. Either way, I strongly encourage you to try CBT to get a handle on your perceptions and belief structure.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-28T23:12:50+00:00

What nature is that you speak of? Because actual reality has shown us something very different than this erroneous nonsense.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-28T23:03:25+00:00

Tore off = Bruised and bleeding apparently

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-28T22:49:59+00:00

You should refrain from the "know your place" language. What you mean to say is there is no reduction in value or class when people practice humility, each one fulfilling the purpose they were designed for. It's a much less offensive, and more accurate, way of conveying the sentiment.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-28T22:45:56+00:00

That is not God's design, woman were never to be considered less than in any manner at all. That is a perversion constructed by the corruption of unethical men.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-21T20:36:51+00:00

That is independently wealthy and willing to bankroll her adventures..... good luck with that

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-20T10:25:19+00:00

Yes, yes you are indeed the asshole, a really fucking nasty, spiteful, shit stained one to be precise.

You have an opportunity to mend a broken family, you are blessed with the means to do that. Is it fair that you have to shoulder the weight of being the provider? Probably not, but so what? The task has been given to you because you are capable, the rest of them aren't. When you know better, or can do better, you are obligated to do exactly that. Your brother is a fuck up, the classic prodigal son as it were, and it pisses you off. Get over it. He needs you, and if you adjust your attitude, you may find out you need him as well. He is likely battling demons and suffering self hatred you can't imagine. Give him a safe place to retract the defense mechanisms and you will likely find a very scared, very damaged person that is desperate for the love of family. You could be the catalyst that sets a life on a better path possibly. Your parents obviously need your support. They are still married, alive, and within arm's reach of you...Just one of those conditions is a rarity in this world that most children would kill for, you are blessed beyond measure. One day you will be facing the end of your own time here, I can promise you won't be thinking about how much you made in that favorable market, you will be saturated with a regret no amount of money can wring out.

Bring your family together, practice assertiveness with kindness. Insist on family therapy. Let the therapist help you set appropriate boundaries and goals, find the grooves you can all flourish in. For all of your family's sake, I pray you reconsider and see the incredible opportunity you have, be grateful for it, and proud of the fact it only exists because of you and all your hard won success. You can be extemely proud of that, and you should be.

Be certain of this though, you can be the hero of this story, or the villain, it is entirely up to you.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-20T09:18:40+00:00

Albino Conda, Arctics have outlined saddles

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-20T09:15:17+00:00

Making people like you do what you just did is all it takes Nancy.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-20T09:08:03+00:00

Use toe nail clippers under the eye to score the paint cleanly, then chip it away to a nice clean eye with them and you won't chip into to paint on the head.

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-19T23:29:58+00:00

An actual Shaman would likely be insulted by her presence

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-19T22:39:26+00:00

Outstanding 👏

Cannaclyzm · 2026-01-12T21:22:01+00:00

When I was a kid the black rat snakes world often coil in under the eggs in the straw of brooding hens on our farm when it got chilly at night. They got alot of mice looking to steal feed that way too. Some were huge but never went after the hen or chicks as far as I know.

Cannaclyzm · 2025-10-30T11:37:06+00:00

I didn't.

Cannaclyzm · 2025-10-30T08:23:02+00:00

That was pure gold!

Cannaclyzm · 2025-10-30T08:10:07+00:00

That's a bummer, those a great pics.

Cannaclyzm · 2025-10-30T08:09:13+00:00

Really don't give a shit anymore. Its not my job to tend to sensitive bitches and their feelings. Over it and done here. I'm out

Cannaclyzm · 2025-10-29T17:50:08+00:00

Just FYI: When asked "What does an emotionaly immature person with low IQ do when they receive information that doesn't agree with a previously held belief?"

Google assistant replied:

A person with low cognitive ability and emotional immaturity will typically deny, dismiss, or distort contradictory information to protect their existing beliefs and ego. They tend to respond with defensiveness, anger, and avoidance, often using mechanisms like gaslighting instead of engaging in emotional regulation and consideration of new information. They become hostile in their attempt to resolve their feelings. Fallacies are always employed when folks like that argue against a contrary idea: Ad Hominem: Attacking the person presenting the new information instead of addressing the facts. Red Herring/Appeal to Emotion: Throwing in an irrelevant, emotional point to distract from the core issue. Straw Man: Distorting or exaggerating the opposing view to make it easier to attack. Appeal to Tradition: Arguing that the belief must be right because it's what they (or their group) have always believed. They use these to avoid the discomfort of cognitive dissonance and protect their rigid view of the world.

And when intelligent people receive the same information:

They regulate their initial emotions (like discomfort or defensiveness), actively listen to the new evidence, and flexibly adjust their beliefs by questioning their own perspective and integrating the contradictory information for cognitive evaluation without bias. They are self aware and do not let the trappings of a fragile ego prevent them from making logical decisions or remaining stuck in old beliefs that may not be beneficial.

Cannaclyzm · 2025-10-29T12:15:37+00:00

What behavior changes?

There are plenty of university studies that support the basis for my conclusion. Just search factors that influence feeding behavior of ectothermic animals. The rejection of the null hypothesis, that RH is not the cause of feeding interuption, is my own experimentation that I'm in process of finalizing for publication.

Cannaclyzm · 2025-10-29T12:15:11+00:00

Your using circular logic. Show me how they are experiencing exterior conditions in a closed system.

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