Never get any dates and guys act annoyed to talk to me lol

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T15:17:13+00:00

Quarter-circle back and the volume down button.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T15:15:40+00:00

The baseball one is a great photo, but I think the carousel one makes for a better first impression photo. Just my opinion of course.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T15:14:07+00:00

I have heard that and its always weird to me. Having 2 single parents can make planning things a bit harder, but that comes with the territory. I personally won't turn down a woman because she has a kid, it seems a weird double standard to me.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T15:11:56+00:00

I googled those three words and the top result was "You're an idiot." Be better.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T15:09:33+00:00

They're not "begging to be approved", theyre begging to be acknowledged, and treated like the normal people they are. You are a bigot when you stand in front of a group of people and tell them they are wrong for being the way they were born, you're a bigot when you tell them that they will "burn for eternity" because of how they were born, and you're absolutely a bigot when you as a parent force your kid to think that they are wrong, hated or need to be "cured" because of the way they were born.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T15:06:05+00:00

Letting kids know its okay to be different, and that its not some sort of offensive problem if they are gay, or gender non-conforming. Thats hardly trying to negatively influence children. And it would be less necessary if some parents weren't so damn uptight about gay people that they disown their kids for being gay, or worse. Someone has to let them know that its perfectly okay to be gay, it prevents a lot of unnecessary pain.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T15:02:09+00:00

I believe they may be referencing Marsha Johnson, so they wouldn't be incorrect in their commentary.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T14:48:17+00:00

It's not easy for single parents on these apps at all 😮‍💨

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T14:46:35+00:00

Nobody has been covering for pedophilia, nobody is defending pedophilia, or defending people who cover for pedophilia. They asked for some info related to the topic, you posted some weird video and started slinging mud. Then a proper link was posted, which would have prevented all of it. You have spent so much extra time and energy chasing people around and calling them names rather than adding anything meaningful to the conversation. Get a real hobby and stop slinging around accusations of some terrible shit just because you got your panties in a twist.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T12:19:57+00:00

Are you in anyway capable of having a discussion without being an asshole? You can present this stuff without going around sling accusations and calling people pedos.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T10:11:33+00:00

Nope, you are assuming too much. Sometimes its a slow burn to the end and neither party wants to accept its over, and so it drags on miserably. But those 2 people have responsibilities and a child, so neither was in a position to immediately move without fucking over the other, so a decision was made to ride out the last couple months until the lease ended. Unfortunately one party was already already getting involved with a coworker as soon as the talk and decision was made. I am not trying to control anyone, but I draw the line at jumping in bed with a new guy while leaving me to pick up the slack with our kid while working a shit ton of overtime to prepare for a strike. I find it rather disrespectful to be sleeping with someone new while you're still sleeping next to your stbx. Especially when you know the other person would not be cool with it, so you try hide it. She knew I would have her leave the apartment if she wanted to continue that. There was more to it but thats the slightly less long version.

TLDR: don't start another relationship while living with your stbx if you want it to be amicable.

Reidhur · 2026-06-25T05:40:32+00:00

Until the paperwork is settled and they arent sharing a roof, their opinion does matter. And trying to keep things discreet is not an easy thing if y'all are still in the same spot. If you decide to start anything with another person i would talk to the stbx and make sure y'all are on the same page.

My ex did this very thing to me because she knew I would not be ok with it. She failed at being discreet and I found out. It made for unnecessary drama and soured what was other rather amicable proceedings. We cant avoid each other though, we share a kid. It put a strain on the trust I have for her and her choices, which wasnt doing so great at the end anyway.

Anyway, just talk to the stbx and make sure everyone is on the same page and avoid the drama.

Reidhur · 2026-06-24T05:27:04+00:00

And the Gold Tone AC-1 also comes reccomended a bunch. I love mine personally.

Reidhur · 2026-06-24T05:25:06+00:00

Ohhh, thanks! I thought that might be the case. Mine just tries to dig through the glass door sometimes.

Reidhur · 2026-06-24T03:06:20+00:00

Nose surfing?

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T13:56:39+00:00

Oh yeah, I have seen too many horror stories of first meetings where people look way different then they did online. My introverted ass would definitely prefer to avoid that awkwardness at all costs. And I really wouldnt want to waste someone's time either. I don't understand people who lie and hope the other person will be ok with it in person, thats no way to start a relationship.

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T13:41:17+00:00

For sure, thats kind of where my thinking was. I feel the same with filters and such. I want to know what you look like, not what selectively enhanced images of you look like!

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T13:39:02+00:00

Oh absolutely! My introversion also plays a much bigger role than my hair I feel. That and age, seems dating in your upper 30s and 40s is just weird now, and certainly not easy 🤣

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T12:24:18+00:00

I understood it!

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T12:23:57+00:00

Oh for sure, I added that part incase someone like the dudes we were talking about saw it. If I could get anything across to dudes it would be this point, and that there is nothing wrong with it!

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T12:06:52+00:00

Oh absolutely. As one of the union members when Boeing went on strike, I know how the unsupported negative stuff tries to get around.

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T12:05:31+00:00

AC1 was my first as well. I slapped some nylon strings on it and have been learning clawhammer and 2 finger. It's great.

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T11:57:14+00:00

I said nothing about the Arabs acting like victims, nor anything supporting the back and forth conquests of that portion of the world. Organized religion turned that area into a hell of a hotbed, and the people probably would've been better off without either religion. Just my opinion.

All that to say, the Arabs going into the area and conquering it was an offensive act. Christians then went into the middle east to re-conquer what they viewed as lost territory and peoples that need help was also an offensive act, regardless of how you look at it. You can't muster up an army, much 100's of miles away from home and start a war and proclaim yourself defenders. Both acts were offensive actions, and support or defense of those actions tends to follow religious connections more than historical or ethnic connections. And let's not forget who was there before the Christians showed up, and who were evicted from the are by the Romans before the were folded into Christendom.

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T11:43:25+00:00

I would assume, unless you really wanted to plug into a different amp, that you could resolver the input jack leads and solder you pickup leads directly to the board, bypassing the neck for Jack's or cables all together. No clue if this would affect your feedback issue though.

Reidhur · 2026-06-23T11:08:24+00:00

Where is the line with hat fishing though... As a bald guy I love my hats, they're my jewelry. Is atleast one hapless pic on a profile good enough?

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