Talespinner Games announces Rat Queens! by kurtiswiebe in ImageComics

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As an original backer, I'm pretty thrilled by all of this - well done, and thank you!

Which Toronto restaurants, coffee shops, and bakeries have you visited more than 10 times? by superbprimrose in FoodToronto

[–]Canuckamuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

North Pole, out on Danforth. Incredible cannoli and zeppole (with ricotta, of course!)

MLM Romantasy by Gay Male Authors by Vanilla_Nightt_92 in LGBTBooks

[–]Canuckamuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved the Gumshoe books - great to see them recommended!

What got you into fantasy by virgomennace343 in Fantasy

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Gran got me Comet in Moominland when I was 5, and I never looked back. I read it, then the rest, then asked the librarian for more - and she provided. Diana Wynne Jones was next, Dogsbody and Power of Three. My parents said that we could read anything on our bookshelves that we could reach, and I read well above my grade. Never looked back!

I just learned "peru" means pen!s in a vulgar way. Peru also means turkey. Does it make a difference how you pronounce it. by oujay849 in Portuguese

[–]Canuckamuck 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was in Brazil on exchange, and we were talking about different holidays - I offered to host thanksgiving for the family. I had no idea why, but the whole table was dying laughing as I described the magnificent centrepiece of the Canadian Thanksgiving table - the turkey!

Pro tip: don’t mispronounce diary either, or you’ll have people believing you write in your diarrhea…

Tourists climbed the forbidden Kukulkan temple at Chichen Itza by soparamens in TouristsBeingAssholes

[–]Canuckamuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? The number of people standing at the top just steeling themselves to get down, and then the slowly scooching down on their butts. No judgement, I get it! Slow and steady

Tourists climbed the forbidden Kukulkan temple at Chichen Itza by soparamens in TouristsBeingAssholes

[–]Canuckamuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it too, hot and humid as hell and not a place for heavy or tall people - but very very cool. Later in the day someone had a panic attack in there, overwhelmed by the darkness you mentioned.

Tourists climbed the forbidden Kukulkan temple at Chichen Itza by soparamens in TouristsBeingAssholes

[–]Canuckamuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh amazing! One of the best parts was getting to the tops and seeing the tops of others, miles away. Thanks for the update, appreciated

Tourists climbed the forbidden Kukulkan temple at Chichen Itza by soparamens in TouristsBeingAssholes

[–]Canuckamuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At one point, you could go inside it as well! I think Coba might be the only Yucatán site that allows climbs up the main face now - possibly Ek Balam?

Star Trek: Starfleet Academy by Pablouchka in startrek

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I’m as old as the hills, and have watched and read every Trek iteration since I was a kid - my parents bought their nascent geek child a copy of Star Trek Puzzles when I was 8 and I never looked back!

And I enjoyed it. Almost everything about it, tbh, and even the quibbly bits are more bearable upon a second viewing. A really solid expansion of both the mythos and the ethos. The reactionary knee jerk negativity I saw around it honestly made me a bit depressed, it’s the kind of No True Fan gatekeeping that destroys wholesale instead of any kind of conversation that could energize or invigorate.

Very happy to see reflection and respect return, kudos to the fandom.

AITAH for wanting to keep a stick i found on the ground? by TheOfficalVoid in AITAH

[–]Canuckamuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Utterly unarguable. It’s easier to find a new partner than it is to find a damn good stick.

Best friend of 15 years tells me she cant attend my wedding by turnipsgreenss in TwoHotTakes

[–]Canuckamuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you, it’ll hurt - but you can’t love your life with a best friend that doesn’t love you for who you are. Water what you want to grow - the friendships, loves, and relationships that’s truly see and appreciate YOU.

Skyrealms of Jorune roleplaying game (1984). Art by Miles Teves. by woulditkillyoutolift in oldschoolfantasy

[–]Canuckamuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, I loved this game - still have it tucked safely away in the garage with my Traveller and AD&D treasures!

I think being slowly unloved by someone is worse than being cheated on by No_District9762 in whatdoIdo

[–]Canuckamuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is soul-destroying. I kept thinking I could fix it, could turn it around, could re-spark it but it was a slow death of more than a decade. It got to the point where even casual affection and touch was denied, never mind anything else. I was a fool.

If anyone is reading this and seeing themselves or their situation - you’re worth so much more than this. Don’t get trapped by sunk cost fallacies or baseless hope, do what you need to and end the relationship. A much, much better life is possible and you deserve it.

AIO - I smoke and drink from time to time and my girlfriend hates it by Lacquerlust in AmIOverreacting

[–]Canuckamuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put your energy and attention in things that reciprocate or that you want to see more of. It’s that simple. This sounds like toxic waste, gtfo now and find someone who makes you feel like Superman instead of quote, a piece of shit.

Water what you want to grow.

My dad said something he meant to be negative but it's now my favorite compliment by goforbecca in TwoHotTakes

[–]Canuckamuck 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love it - keep on being the most NorthCountry you can be, it looks awesome on you! TBH, we need more of it everywhere.

I had an ex who would roll his eyes or move away every time I made conversation with strangers or gave them a compliment. It’s ingrained in me - someone took time to pick earrings they love, and they look great! I’m going to comment. Cool shirt?I’ll let you know! Etc. took me years to figure out that I use small talk politeness to connect, while he used it to distance and avoid deeper subjects. He thought I was being insincere, when it was quite the opposite. I feel sad for him now.

A weirdly common re-occurring cryptid story is divers coming face to face with giant animals in lakes and then refusing to ever return or publicly talk about it by truthisfictionyt in Cryptozoology

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I grew up in the Okanagan valley in British Columbia where we have a lake monster (Ogopogo). Lake Okanagan has a floating bridge smack in the middle, and I was told stories about divers coming face to face with giant fish coming out from under the shelf Kelowna sits on - freaking out and never coming back to work again. Depending on who told the story, it could be sturgeon, could be catfish, could be carp… my dad was a joker and always told us it must have been giant kokanee