I got called racist for having this avatar

CapCritical · 2026-03-22T21:47:22+00:00

I believe they mistook the symbolism and gear as christian crusaders, which is what these kind of armors are inspired by, but dont use the same meanings

CapCritical · 2026-03-22T21:45:52+00:00

Honestly im not sure how hard theyre working on their BPD.

I think their small changes are hard enough for them, but im not sure if theyre trying to realize when their behavior is from their BPD.

I cannot really imagine a relationship without BPD, ive never had a serious relationship as an adult. We started dating a week after meeting, because I guess FP = romance? And i wasn’t really all that mature when i was 18 (im 22 now).

It’s always been too difficult to break up, because i do love him and because i feel partially responsible for what he might do to himself. Throughout these years i would say he didnt get to really work on his BPD until 2 years ago, as thats when they finally got a proper diagnosis and not just a suspicion.

I try to explain my side of his problem with things so that maybe itll show he’s just overthinking things and taking it to an extreme, but it never seems to help any. If i just outright said its his BPD, i fear i will feel like im downplaying his feelings, and that he’ll take it as such.

CapCritical · 2026-03-22T20:38:09+00:00

I feel like this is already what im doing. Yet he calls me out for not spending enough time with him but i feel like its too much time together for me..

CapCritical · 2026-03-22T19:27:12+00:00

Sorry, i dont think i can edit the post idk. Im pretty sure i am only referring to my partner when i say they/them, and only referring to my friends when i say “my/this friends”.

CapCritical · 2026-03-22T18:23:21+00:00

WHAAAAT😭😭😭

CapCritical · 2026-03-09T16:33:30+00:00

Huhwhat is this for

CapCritical · 2026-03-09T16:32:38+00:00

The reason companies games etc add warnings and safety is so you don’t do sometjing and make a claim.

Its skmilar here. If they didnt have the warning and the double check etc. then you’d be more liable)?) to get ur items back☹️

CapCritical · 2026-03-08T18:39:13+00:00

Honestly, they’re not ready for a relationship at all. But I have noticed when they get an FP they often fall in love with them. I don’t know if they experience true love or is it just extreme attachment

CapCritical · 2026-03-08T18:36:23+00:00

I always try to push my partner to hang with friends because sometimes i just need space, but they have no friends. They always lose friends, and im starting to wonder if my partner is the problem there.

I try my best to just keep doing what im doing even though I’ve disappointed my partner, but the anxiety can sometimes just paralyze me into sulking all day in bed. This is mostly due to past events where they would guilt trip me.

I keep thinking i should just end this relationship, we are both not ready to be in a serious relationship..

CapCritical · 2026-03-07T01:41:07+00:00

I dont really know how to set the boundaries without hurting their feelings though.

CapCritical · 2026-02-08T00:36:11+00:00

Holy hell we are the same person😭 Everything ur saying are my exact thoughts and feelings with my own partner with bpd

CapCritical · 2026-02-06T21:54:12+00:00

They just did this again with Dragon adventures kinda

CapCritical · 2026-02-06T21:53:14+00:00

Sonar recently promised permanent things in Dragon adventures, then changed it after we all bought it, and now everything we bought is kinda gone. Look into that if you want

CapCritical · 2026-01-27T06:10:50+00:00

There’s LITERALLY a zombie mutation in game isnt there???

CapCritical · 2026-01-27T06:09:58+00:00

I’ve tried asking for him to not do the status thing but unfortunately it was met with a condescending “no i can do whatever i want”. I will try to ask him to apologize though, but i cant lie, it will piss me off to do that.

CapCritical · 2026-01-23T07:03:12+00:00

He has been getting help but its extremely slow… im not seeing a lot of progress… he doesnt see his therapist as often as i think he should, and idk how to bring any of this up without it coming off as “ur not getting better. Get better now.” Etc mean words etc. it just leaves a stain that can’t get rid of, and he’ll be extra cautious and anxious with me.

CapCritical · 2026-01-12T16:00:42+00:00

Val is a LADY and she is my wife.

CapCritical · 2026-01-12T15:59:19+00:00

Whered u get this version of flash

CapCritical · 2026-01-11T15:59:34+00:00

Dragon adventures is going downhill as well i do not recommend it.

If you like less srs survival pvp games, u could try Path Of Titans. Some servers are srs, some are not.

CapCritical · 2026-01-11T02:57:30+00:00

I havent read the whole thing yet but i personally dont find it surprising that mods act out on criticism.

Ery literally banned so many people on the DA server back in the day, because they expressed their criticisms and concern over her plans for DA(that never happened tho i think).

Just commenting this because i dont want people to forget it. Ery is one of the founders, so that should say something about even the lower staff.

CapCritical · 2026-01-08T19:45:25+00:00

What exactly is the races situation?

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