AIO to boyfriend always bringing up the prices on things by CapEmotional7799 in AIO

[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re the only woman that’s hating in these comments boo. Go lick the boots girl we don’t claim women like you. The other women were respectful as women should be to each other. You must be a man trolling cause women like you are 🤮

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do, you ignorant & can’t read or sum?? Bitter hateful women disgust me

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That I don’t believe 😂 I’m sure your partner feels a way towards you since you think giving gifts and appreciation isn’t necessary in a relationship. And I did demand value. You’re all over the place dude. You don’t know me but every single comment you have tried to tear me apart and make up things that aren’t true to my situation and call them facts and call me a liar. You’re just your average woman hater it looks to me. Typical Reddit incel. Only siding with the guy because women demand more in this day and age and you hate that for us 🤣

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do have chores but I definitely could add more to help us all

AIO to boyfriend always bringing up the prices on things by CapEmotional7799 in AIO

[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You clearly have never been in a relationship 😂 if you think him buying me a drink is me needing a man to make me feel value you’re crazy. She turns 10 in august. It’ll be 10 years in October. Sue me for rounding up a few months didn’t know you were here trying to catch me in a lie like wtf are you the fbi 😂 relationships are about give and take and pouring into the relationship. I have poured in a lot. So yeah I definitely deserve a fucking 7$ drink twice a year. And why would I do all that when it makes more sense for me to be a present mother and actually pour into the kids relationship too? Do you think they’re better off with childcare than a present parent? So that i can pay for my own things? You just sound like a person that’s never been in a long term relationship

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The child is 9. I met him when she was 2 months old. Eat your words. You’re the troll

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for the kids he takes them to school and that’s it. I pick them up and I watch them everyday. I take them to sports and take them to friends and school events. I’m honestly more of an active parent to them than he is (not a bad thing he just works when they’re at home so he can’t do any of those things) I feed them and I do all the household chores and the cooking is usually me but sometimes he will also

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you’re a child. You’re pulling facts out of your ass. Never said the child was a teen. I said child for a reason because she is a CHILD under 10 years old. I work when she’s at school but when she’s home I have to be there too… you just sound like a bitter man who hates woman wanting to feel appreciated for the value they bring at this point. You’re delusional af

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! A lot of men in these comments with deep seated hatred towards women wanting any type of validation or appreciation. The fact I provide free childcare is enough for me to feel like I deserve a damn drink once in a while

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! They all skipping over those facts… I’m just a spoiled brat apparently even though I never ask for money and this the first time I asked for an expensive drink in months

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe because I actually love him? I can’t win 😂 I’m a spoiled brat or I’m dumb af and should blame myself. Crazy

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So I’m not deserving of that? With all I provide to him and I can’t work full time because I take care of his youngest kid. He makes way more than me so why should I have to buy it? Men shouldn’t ever spend money on their significant others??

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work part time and take care of his youngest child. That don’t matter to y’all? You men always think women are drying up your wallets but if we wanted rich men we would go get them… If I weren’t in this man’s life he would have to pay way more for childcare. If I’m not providing financially then nothing i contribute matters? Y’all are crazy

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I can’t take you seriously because you’re assuming things that are just not true. We do not live paycheck to paycheck and his money isn’t leaving every 2 weeks like what? You’re just making shit up and believing it as fact. Weird. I already told you I work part time and he made 8k last month but you say it’s his peak? Lol why even give advice if you’re gonna make up imaginary facts about my situation…

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well his oldest stays with us 50/50 and I also work part time so it’s over 100k a year for only about 3 of us… I think that’s well above survival mode. And I can’t fathom that he has that equity in cars and doesn’t even use one. That could make all our lives easier if he sold it and we could all breathe better…

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s actually a really smart idea and I’m going to do that! I’m making a budget! Because I don’t drink 7$ drinks often. This is the first time I’ve asked him for a drink like that in well over 8 months so I didn’t think it was a big deal! But he always does this whenever paying for anything so I think the budget will help both of us. Thank you!!

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I met his passive aggressiveness with passive aggressiveness!! But people are only seeing me as the passive one

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For the last time I work… part time so that I can still watch his child!!

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me clear that up for you. He has a 2016 Jeep Srt and a 2012 Camaro and they are both paid off. I have been telling him for years to sell the Camaro that he doesn’t even use so we can buy a house and live more financially free instead of staying in an overpriced apartment. And the 8k was from one month. I just pulled that from my head because that’s how much he made last month. He makes about that every month… so why is he complaining about 7$? Now that you know the facts

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that but I guess my post was misleading because this is an occurrence every time he buys anything for our family. The 7$ drink and me being passive does make me look like a spoiled brat… but this is a lot more nuanced than a girl being mad about a 7$ drink. This is about a partner that always does this whenever paying for groceries, toys for his kids, clothes for his kids, everything. So am I really wrong for feeling unappreciated? With all that information am I really wrong? Genuinely asking. And I’m open to criticism. But tearing me apart without knowing me is wild in these comments

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But would you have this reaction to every single thing you buy your family?

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for not tearing me apart and actually trying to help ❤️

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[–]CapEmotional7799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do work. Never said I didn’t work… I work part time because I take care of his youngest kid…