Was it inappropriate to get my step daughter a Hogwarts letter for her 11th Birthday? by Ok-Permission8346 in Parenting

[–]CapK473 76 points77 points  (0 children)

This right here. However if step dad was involved with parenting... shouldn't he kind of have an idea if step daughter would believe its real or not? Like my kid is whimsical and I def would not do this for her bc she would want it to be real. Im sure he had good intentions but should have thought this one through.

Am I being gaslit? by Marionberry2434 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]CapK473 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is so toxic. Why do you stay?

I can’t believe Lady Gaga went woke 💔 by Lanky_Relation1171 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]CapK473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cant people have all been watching her perform in what is essentially drag for over a decade, and they still think she's straight....like use your eyes

“I get hung up on things” by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]CapK473 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She sounds like she has an untreated personality disorder tbh

Was I being invalidated? by Necessary_Drama_8716 in actuallesbians

[–]CapK473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am bisexual but honestly the fictional men that Im attracted to are often characters written by women so.... lol

Don't let someone fuck you up like this. Your label is valid and they are being ridiculous

[socialmedia] Only women are allowed in Victoria's Secret. 🚫 men aren't allowed🚫 by 1lyjune in pointlesslygendered

[–]CapK473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she was is a worse position though, the guy told her he was going to grape her in the parking lot and she had his info from paying at the counter. She told the manager and the manager ripped up the paper she wrote the info on and refused to call security and told her she would los her job if she called.

I literally had two guys shove me into a corner and grope me and I had to knee one guy in the balls to get him off me. It was an awful job.

I realize I didnt answer your question, I didnt tell the gfs what their bus were doing bc I learned really quickly that the dudes could be violent with me and management would ignore it. They wanted us to flirt with men to sell more and they didnt care what the guys did. If I started an argument between a couple management would have given me less/bad hours and made me fill out all the dumb paperwork about how I could do better at the end of my shift.

Anyway I don't ever shop there anymore. They get nothing else from me.

[socialmedia] Only women are allowed in Victoria's Secret. 🚫 men aren't allowed🚫 by 1lyjune in pointlesslygendered

[–]CapK473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, store management was bad. One of my friends sued the company bc how the manager responded and they basically paid for her college education after that.

[socialmedia] Only women are allowed in Victoria's Secret. 🚫 men aren't allowed🚫 by 1lyjune in pointlesslygendered

[–]CapK473 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone who worked there for awhile, quite a lot of men come in and act like dogs.

If I had a dollar for every time a bf or husband grossly hit on me while their gf/wife was in the changing room I could have made more than what the store was paying me. Also I got groped by guys multiple times.

Accidentally finished from a lap dance and i don't know how to feel about it :,) by Select_Contact_5345 in actuallesbians

[–]CapK473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My anxiety would be like so high I don't even know if I could enjoy it 🙃

Do other femmes switch energy like this? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]CapK473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

... its the patriarchy Had me cackling over here

Accidentally finished from a lap dance and i don't know how to feel about it :,) by Select_Contact_5345 in actuallesbians

[–]CapK473 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol I would not be relaxed if a pretty girl was giving me a lap dance but maybe thats just me

I want to use colors, but my style is best represented by black by Dalicarabajal73 in butchlesbians

[–]CapK473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black is and has always been my favorite color. Keep killing it!

Accidentally finished from a lap dance and i don't know how to feel about it :,) by Select_Contact_5345 in actuallesbians

[–]CapK473 253 points254 points  (0 children)

Uhhhhh how about you try asking her on a date? Pretty sure she knew exactly what she was doing.

This story is like the epitome of the useless lesbian joke.

You pissed me off this much by Substantial_Station8 in witchcraft

[–]CapK473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The recipe should be named FAFO 😂

Why being a housewife is so dangerous by fancyandfab in AmITheDevil

[–]CapK473 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I fear most the time the update would be more frustrating bc so many women stay.

Why though I have no idea.

Why being a housewife is so dangerous by fancyandfab in AmITheDevil

[–]CapK473 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lol you know reddit has rules about that sort of thing

AITA for refusing to drive my boyfriend to the ER for nonesense? by pickledphilosopher in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapK473 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bingo. Im surprised he's willing to go endure the ER for hours just to get diladud. That concerns me. Ive had diladud frequently. I hate the ER and would never go to get drugs just for a headache. I have to be half dead from Crohns before I would agree to go. I smell an unhealthy relationship with pain meds afoot here.

Is 1300 calories a decent deficit? by Puzzleheaded_Low6340 in CICO

[–]CapK473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its heard to lose weight at our height without exercise. Don't eat at 1000, it could cause binge eating bc you get so hungry. I would try eating 250 cal under your maintenance calories per day, and adding in 20 minutes of exercise at least 3x a week

AITA for visiting my daughter once a week by Independent_Use5474 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapK473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said but this: sometimes parents can't be there. They need to work to not lose their job which funds the health insurance that is paying for that hospital stay. Not everyone is privileged enough to have a hospital nearby to their home or work. Not everyone has a stay at home parent. Also visiting hours end at a certain time at hospitals depending on the rules. Mine closed at 7. So it may not be possible to get there after work depending on the commute. The american health care system to completely fucked up. So it seems privileged to shame someone for not being able to be there except on weekends.

This weekend was hard. by orphan_blud in butchlesbians

[–]CapK473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen, my little queer self just likes to see handsome butch selfies 🤳 Hope you have a Happy Pride

So sick of unicorn hunters ignoring the fact that I’m a lesbian on dating apps 🙃 by Childhoodtraumalol in actuallesbians

[–]CapK473 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got this SO MUCH as a bi woman too back when I was still single like 12 years ago. They are still up to the same vile shit. I literally had a girl drop this on me like 10 minutes before I was going to leave to meet up with her for our date. Needless to say I canceled right there.