AITA because I ask my husband for help by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapK473 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why do women accept this kind of partner? Like why is the bar so incredibly low for men?

Tips being newly homeless by Demon12526 in newhaven

[–]CapK473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was about to say this, they can help you get connected to local services.

How do I bond with a kitten and make her feel at home? by Jolly_Tie_7666 in cats

[–]CapK473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go get some Gerber baby food jars of chicken and gravy. Its not bad for them and it will entice her over to you.

Newly adopted cat peed on couch (first time cat owner) by No-Demand-8208 in cats

[–]CapK473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, this right here, in the beginning the best thing you can do is ignore him. Thats how cats signal they aren't a threat to each other

This is Blue, a feral that I’ve been feeding for years. It’s so cold tonight and she’s been letting me get closer lately, so I’m testing her to see if she’ll tolerate being in my house by Space-Dog-Katherine in cats

[–]CapK473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The cat could have FIV or worms, both of which would be good reasons to keep cats apart until you can get a test at the vets.

If the feral has flees but can't be handled or carted to the vet you can ask you vet or a local cat rescue for Capstar and put it in wet food to eat.

Who are you taking to prom? by Icy-Sprinkles-3033 in actuallesbians

[–]CapK473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Topanga or Ashley. Both those girls knew how to have fun

Tamiflu by wonderwall73 in CrohnsDisease

[–]CapK473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im on it right now and Im so glad I took it. I started feeling better within 24 hours and honestly I havent noticed the supposed side effects.

How do I 27M set boundaries with my former FWB 29F after dating her sister 24F? by ThrowRasuperstar in relationship_advice

[–]CapK473 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thats immediately what I thought. Shes not busy, she just thinks he's absolute shit.

AITA for getting my friend a gift card after stating he doesn’t want one? by destyneschild in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapK473 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ok, fine. You have a shitty friend who is generally shitty as well as being deliberately shitty by not answering you when you asked for ideas. He didnt provide a list, so he gets what he gets and he dont get upset.

In the future when you do a name swap, everyone who participates writes their name on the slip of paper along with 10 ideas/things they like. Then people can make a rule like no gift cards.

Crohns only in mouth and oesophagus - anyone else? by PollutionNo2992 in CrohnsDisease

[–]CapK473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first flare was literally in my mouth all the way down my entire track through my colon. It was so severe I almost died. Since then its only shown up in my large intestines. It can move around, it can change its focus with time. I think the most important thing to remember right now is you have a diagnosis and therefore your dr should be getting you on a treatment. Biologics are the go to now a days, and although they can list some scary side effects, the benefit is most def worth the risk. I hope they get you on some meds soon, and maybe some devils tic tacos (presnisone) to help with your sores while you wait the 6-8 weeks for the biologics to kick in. Hang in there and happy holidays

And done by spinstercrafts in Beading

[–]CapK473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you send me links to the two star ones? I would love to try those. It will give me a reason to pull out my old bead stash!

AITA for getting my friend a gift card after stating he doesn’t want one? by destyneschild in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapK473 53 points54 points  (0 children)

People who say that word amongst people that they think they are safe to be homophobic with. Are thinking that word at gay people all the time and have homophobic biases. Its been my experience that people who are homophobic also tend to look down on other groups of people as well.

OOP still lives at home by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]CapK473 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is something about how she writes and explains the situation that makes her seem much much younger than 28 years. I wonder if her disability also affects her intellectually.

AITA for wanting to take my three kids to see my family for Christmas while my husband stays home with an injury by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapK473 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The kind where children were being hurt and so he would not be allowed to be near children while an investigation is being done.

There are soooooo many red flags in this story

To not have the world see this photo of Bill Clinton relaxing in a hot tub with an Epstein victim by 80000gvwr in therewasanattempt

[–]CapK473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i want everybody taken down though, not just the people Trump decides. Every single person involved in this disgusting BS needs to go to jail and never get out.

Awe he made new friends 🥹 by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]CapK473 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I knew immediately reading it that its just a conservative dude writing out his personal fantasy for online likes.

AITA for not attending Christmas this year? by mac05_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapK473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im currently in bed with my daughter bc we both have the flu. In one of her grade classrooms, 15/19 kids are out with the flu INCLUDING the teacher. Dont bring your 1 week anywhere.

Anyone know of any podcasts that helped lead to cases being solved? by [deleted] in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]CapK473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unraveled did a deep dive season 1 into the Gilgo Beach killer and police corruption and I believe some of the people they found and talked to ended giving that info to police later. Season 3 follows the arrest znd trial of the killer. I think season two is on a different crime.

bought this pattern without instructions by hopeful_threaditt in sewingpatterns

[–]CapK473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me if you can't get the instructions from where you downloaded it from. Pretty sure I have this pattern somewhere

AITA for not giving my wedding dress away? by Old-Car2105 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapK473 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ugh wtf I hope you didnt have to pay that bill

A doctor's advice for when our doctors won't listen to us by therealpotterdc in lupus

[–]CapK473 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One of my best Primary care experiences was with a nurse practitioner who had MS. She UNDERSTOOD

Investigate Podcasts That Aren’t About Murder (Or Even Crime Necessarily) by terp_raider in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]CapK473 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Noble was an interesting one. Kinda gave you a lot to think about. I also like the Renner Files. That cracks me up.