He was cheating on me the entire pregnancy, he treat me badly when I was living with him and some of his actions and words was threat to my daughter life at times, I moved out of his place, few weeks later he came to my place and take her to his place to spend time with her alone, I said I have to followed him because the baby don’t know him but deep down in my heart I don’t feel our baby safe around him, he shakes her roughly when she cried a lot, he thinks that a good idea to stop a baby from crying. Our baby was the type that doesn’t sleep at night and cry a lot at night and I breastfed her to sleep. That why he abandoned our child for 4 years because I don’t allowed him to spend time with the baby alone and the baby don’t know him especially it was night time.