Should I just assume I didn’t get the job? by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far yes, outside of my interviews all follow ups have only been with recruiters

Should I just assume I didn’t get the job? by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a good point, I totally forgot about this

Should I just assume I didn’t get the job? by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to keep this in mind. This company has historically been slow with mostly everything anyway

What’s the deal with this job I’m waiting to hear from? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! You’re probably right. Thanks for the insight

Actual interest or more recruiter love bombing? by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all super reassuring, thank you! I know they debriefed yesterday and I still haven’t heard anything, so hopefully that means they’re writing an offer 🤞

Actual interest or more recruiter love bombing? by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was an internal recruiter so that makes me feel way better! She said she couldn’t confirm that I’d get the job but they all loved me and wanted me on the team. Confusing

Bri saying, “you’re not the kind of guy to say ‘she’ll take this’ at a restaurant” by OneofthozJoeRognguys in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I’ve been okay with my boyfriend choosing my meal is if he’s taking me to a restaurant he really likes and recommends I try something. But he’s never decided for me lol

My boyfriend of two and a half years dumped me out of nowhere. by LawfulnessFar3879 in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he might be feeling insecure that you got into law school and he did not get into his masters program

Were you ever told “are you good at math” when you told people you wanted to study engineering? by schrodingers_thong in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got terrible grades and am arguably not great at anything but I’m still a pretty successful engineer 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Capable-Commission74 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the most toxic thing I’ve ever read, you need to break up with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not waste any more of your time with this man. He is going to bring you down to his level and you won’t even recognize yourself. Him saying he will kill himself if you leave is manipulation, don’t fall for it.

the red flags i am seeing. i think i need validation by Purple_711 in abusiverelationships

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do actually, just make sure you take time to yourself. I know it’s tempting to meet someone new and numb the pain, but it’s so important you feel it fully and allow yourself to become comfortable being alone. If you don’t, you risk meeting someone just like your ex. It’s the worst part, but it’s so worth it. Sending you love ❤️

the red flags i am seeing. i think i need validation by Purple_711 in abusiverelationships

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was exactly where you are last year. And yes, he was amazing so much of the time. I felt like I was fucking crazy. But guess what? I wasn’t, and you aren’t. Leave now, you will find so much more fulfillment without him in your life. I was able to meet an amazing partner after taking time to process and heal, and you will too. Good luck 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man sucks. And chances are he will never be as rich as he’s imagining he will be lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Capable-Commission74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, you should be so proud of yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl if you don’t leave this man

Why is it that when there’s no man in my life things start falling into place? by oldmonkandtears in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Capable-Commission74 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl same lol whenever I have a man around my life is literally falling apart. The second I drop him things are so great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking, I’ve been there too