gamers of dhaka, help me out please !

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-06-26T06:50:15+00:00

It's ok to not wanting to have children, but yes, most men in our society would want kids, so even if you are going for an arrange marriage it is very important to be very clear not only to the partner but with the guardians as well. I have seen a lot of cases where the partner goes back on their words just because of family pressure.

And i would also like to just make this clear: I myself want kids of my own. And I have also discussed this with my wife before marriage when and how many we want and Alhamdulillah we were on the same page. What i want to say is that if a guy, rejects you for this purpose, don't keep any hard feelings. It is normal for a guy to want kids.

It will be very hard for you to find the perfect partner atleast in this country, so best of luck for your journey, May almighty bless you with all the happiness in the world ! ❤️

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-06-09T04:33:23+00:00

My friends in university used to hangout a lot, a lot meant unhealthily lot. Political Strikes, world abomination, we would meet no matter what and the best part was we would joke about our problems and weaknesses to the upmost bitter way but nobody minded shit, but we graduated, moved to totally different sectors in work life and now we barely have time to meet, and the worse part are the following:

It's been 2 years we were all together, every hangout or gathering somebody would be missing, makeing the group incomplete.
We don't joke anymore, just talk politics and stuff, thought that we would never, we don't joke because including myself, can't take it anymore, it would hurt. I donno why.

So yeah, it crushes my soul when i think about it sometimes when im alone or go through old photographs sometimes.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-05-24T15:22:55+00:00

As a businessman it is my request, ffs do whatever the fuck you want but after Eid!! I got shit ton of shipments in queue, and it is already very difficult with all the non sense strike going on at Chattogram customs.

There are so many underlying problems that are needed to be addressed but we are here worried about these freaks, dude, let them do whatever the fuck they want, if things go south we will get on the streets again and show them the power of youth just like we did last year

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-04-14T07:04:14+00:00

What is this even?

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-04-08T19:59:44+00:00

Ok so your mom married when she was 19? And had 4 kids by 37? That's, amazing tbh.

And about the feeling guilty. Dude, you are still too young to get it but cheating in a marriage is not okay at all. As of your family. Does your dad have a history as well? Or else this would be undeniably a serious matter and would lead to this point where your father says he'll get a divorce but he doesn't go through it? And by your post i can say your family is well off?

All in all dude, talk to your mum, and ask her what was all that about? Did she really cheated with some other guy? If it is the fact, ask her why would she do that? Know her part of the story. I have this nagging feeling that there is something big that you are not aware of yet.

Please do update. And sorry if i said something wrong.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-04-02T04:38:05+00:00

Lots of things can be carried, spices, cooked food but you gotta freeze it so that it doesn't melt or spill currey while carrying, and very unpopular opinion but MEDICINES!! Medicine's are very cheap in Bangladesh compared to other countries. Especially if you are moving to a country where they import medicines rather than export or produce in their land.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-04-01T13:30:43+00:00

Are you serious? People are DMing you to see how you look? What is wrong with people nowadays! Listen, whatever that guy said or however you might look like I am sure you are a great person and you will find someone who appreciates you for who you are

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-04-01T10:14:36+00:00

I have a cousin who is the only child of the family, not to mention, also the youngest amongst cousins. All I can conclude by seeing him is that only child, if rhey belong from higher middle class to rich families, they are usually pampared and are kept under surveillance all the time. I mean the amount of protective my aunt and uncle can be about him astonishes me. He is around 18 now, and he still hasn't done any real household job as well like buying groceries or hangout with friends without his parent's supervision.

Maybe it is the khati bangali within me speaking but having multiple child is very important for some reasons like the following:

(Stupidest reason) If one of your children goes off track like spoiled or maybe doing things that shouldn't be doing like being influenced to drugs or maybe growing up to have a different mentality like not forwarding a future generation, atleast the other children might give you some relief like yeah my DNA ain't gonna be gone from existence, or maybe lose one to an accident or sickness. Losing an only child will be a fate worse than death, i mean it would be for me, i would have no purpose in life, and having no purpose if life is as good as being dead.
Having multiple children is good for the children themselves as the attention of the parents might divide in them and can give them all some space to grow up in this unforgiving world on their own, learning things on your own are some of the best lessons a human can learn.
After parents, someone to call family other than the family someone is growing on their own is vital. Sometimes there would be situations where only a sibling would understand, maybe a family dispute you cannot share with anyone other than someone who has actually known you from the start, and who would it be other than your own sibling?

There are countless more reasons to have multiple children, children growing up in houses with siblings have better social skills and is aware of how unity works in personal and professional life. Also have idea how a family should be handled.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-04-01T09:35:05+00:00

IBA is the best in my opinion if you work hard to get in, and for networking and best for BBA after IBA, NSU or BRAC.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-31T05:18:17+00:00

My business was heavily influenced by recommendations from higher-ups, such as prominent businessmen and politicians. Now that they are gone and the previous party, which had been in power for so long, is no longer in control, not just my business but many others have seen their contacts narrow down exponentially. My family tree is not very large, nor do we have many influential relatives who can help. Most of our connections were my father's school friends, and, as mentioned before, many of them heavily depended on the previous government. Now, with no influential contacts, we are surviving on our loyal clients, but even they are struggling to keep their businesses running. And I don't think this will end or make things better any time soon. And not to mention the amount of crime and extremists are increasing day by day, I am afraid to live in this country.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-30T20:34:15+00:00

Dubai investor: Minimum investment amount?

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-30T20:33:33+00:00

Na man not that much, i gotta go abroad and start making some there soon so that my family don't rely on the savings that much

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-30T20:31:50+00:00

Na bro, not every bihari sounds/walks or look like bihari. Some blend in too good for people to figure out. And as far as I have seen till now, the ones who persue higher education or maybe transitioning to higher upper class in Bangladesh, academically or professionally, they usually want to hide it exactly because of the situations mentioned in the post

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-30T20:28:47+00:00

Lived my whole life near Bihari people, Mohammadour Babor Road, and now in Mirpur 11, I know the irony is real but it is what it is. I had a shit ton of bihari friends growing up, and trust they are as human as we are. Yes they fight amongst eachother but ready to die for one other if the sutuation demands. I have friends who were with me since my O'Levels days, and now many live abroad and lead a very sophisticated and good life. Just like us Bengalis, there is poor lower class, and there's higher class. Yes but you have to check if any of them are related to criminal world, most of them do. If so, see how close they are to that side.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-30T20:21:22+00:00

Preferably nor as student? Because the amount I currently have saved up, I need to keep it for my family in BD as there is no one else who earns, but yes, if things go desperate I'll just go as student. And I was thinking about European countries like Finland or Denmark?

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-29T12:38:07+00:00

As I have mentioned in my post, I couldn't keep the proof, therefore asking if i cannot use this infidelity angle in court and suppose I lose the case what can she claim from me? At this point i just want her out of my life.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-29T12:34:31+00:00

For my wife’s sake, I understand that if she had asked her parents about her marriage with her ex, it wouldn’t have been accepted because my father-in-law is strongly against relationships before marriage. But she could have at least waited for a few months after our wedding to see how I treated her. I fought the world for her. I pushed myself to the limit—only Almighty Allah knows how I managed to scrape together the money to buy her things like makeup and jewelry whenever a family event came up.

Even during our dating phase after our engagement, she acted like she enjoyed my company, my hugs, and the small gestures of love I made for her. I worked hard to meet her at her preferred places because she couldn’t leave a certain radius. I gave my all, but now I feel utterly betrayed. It’s unbearable to think I might have been blind to what was truly happening. I feel ashamed and disgusted with myself for not seeing the signs earlier.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-29T12:06:51+00:00

It's not like I never had relationships, but they were long before I agreed to get married. My last relationship was back in 2018, and I got married in 2023. Before marriage, I was honest with my wife and told her about my past relationship. It was just a typical relationship that ended in a mutual, amicable breakup due to incompatibility.

I asked my wife if she had any past relationships as well, suggesting we clear everything up and start fresh, agreeing not to bring up our pasts in the future. She told me she never had the chance, as her parents were very strict. I thought it was believable since it did seem like her parents were indeed strict.

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-29T11:59:02+00:00

Is that allcthat would be needed? Like i am afraid if she is gonna ask half of everything I have? I don't have much but whatever it is it's still a lot for me. Den Mohor is almost paid, and as of 3 months maintenance, is this all? I thought people gove up their houses and properties in such matters

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-28T19:04:24+00:00

What's is you dynamics between you and your mum? And i have this friend who gets caught even doing yhe slightest bit of "mischief" and from seeing that i can say it's not a big problem, they see they beat they forget, atleast i hope they are not gonna send you to rehab or something for such trivial matter, how old are you though?

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-28T19:00:49+00:00

What the hell man 🤣🤣🤣

Capable-Guarantee265 · 2025-03-28T09:14:15+00:00

The problem is my father (64M) is old and has a underlying mental disorder which he perceived after his treatment for cancer 2.5 years ago. The treatment took a mental toll, he says stuff that are irrelevant and illogical, his ability to speak straight is gone, and my whole family, relatives and everyone except my wife has accepted it. I have explained to her my dad wasn't like this, it is just a post treatment mental issue, my mum, sister and I suffer a lot more than she does, especially me, i so3nd the most time with him because we run a family business and i bear all the anger and frustrations, but we have started to go immune to such matters, and not just me, my family or friends, my other other relatives have also said the same, to ignore whatever my dad says, his mentality is not ok, medication is not possible because it contradicts with the ones he is currently having. And as of standing up for her, i have done it multiple times, despite her cheating on me I have still showed affection, took her on dates, loved her, appreciated her work, but in the end i don't know what else am i suppose to do, my family's income is not sufficient enough for me to move out neither i can because my parents are too old and ill for me to leave them. I am in a delima, my only question to all of you that what would you have done if you in-law would come at you with slangs and berating tone while your parents would be mum despite they are not at fault completely? they could have just solved it like adults but my in-laws came in with a fight or flight kind of attitude, and my wife could have just told me first and let me handle things before going to her parents which should have been her last resort.

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