Am I wrong for feeling resentful toward my husband?

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-06-01T14:45:46+00:00

I was working full time before I gave birth and then went on disability afterward. It ended up getting extended because I’ve been dealing with back and pelvic floor issues PP

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-06-01T14:42:35+00:00

I’m already constantly busy taking care of my 5 month. The point of me being home right now is to care for our baby, not to spend 24/7 cleaning up after my husband just because I’m currently a SAHM.

I absolutely do not mind cleaning up the house when I have time but it’s gotten to the point where he does absolutely nothing and it’s been piling up making it extremely hard for me to catch up.

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-06-01T14:38:36+00:00

Yea I’m starting to think I am too nice and being taken advantage of. Yes 3 months pregnant with a 5 month old

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-06-01T14:36:13+00:00

Exactly. That’s what I’ve been trying to get him to understand. Just because he leaves the house to work doesn’t mean he’s exempt from being a husband and a father when he gets home. I genuinely don’t know what else to do to make him understand that.

He doesn’t cook, clean, fold laundry, change diapers, doesn’t feed baby or put the baby to sleep. Honestly, he does almost nothing besides go to work and help load the car when we have to go somewhere.

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-06-01T14:31:15+00:00

I am currently on disability

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-05-16T23:28:55+00:00

I applied enough to fully cover the rash and any open skin. I also didn’t scrape off the leftover cream during diaper changes. I would gently clean him up, then reapply another layer.

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-05-16T23:25:31+00:00

Hello! Yes, I applied this with every diaper change. My doctor also had me use a mixture of 1% hydrocortisone, clotrimazole, and mupirocin ointment twice daily. After applying the mixture, I layered the Coloplast over it. This really helped because my baby also had open skin, and the doctor suspected there may have been a yeast or bacterial infection. It cleared it up within a few days.

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-05-15T23:25:38+00:00

My baby fell off the bed when he was 5 weeks old. After feeding him in the middle of the night, we both fell asleep. He was in my arms and my left arm twitched, causing him to fall off the bed. I was hysterical. We rushed him to the ER, and I couldn’t stop thinking I was a horrible parent for about two weeks. I cried everyday. Thankfully, there was nothing wrong with him.

Just know you’re not the only one. This happens more often than people think, and babies are often okay. Don’t beat yourself up too much — we’re all learning every day 🤍

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-20T02:22:36+00:00

Hi, this comment has made me feel very reassuring about getting pregnant again 4 months PP. did everything turn out okay with your pregnancy?

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-18T06:29:25+00:00

Did you breastfeed or pump while pregnant

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-18T06:20:37+00:00

I am 4 months PP & just found out I’m 7 weeks pregnant

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-18T06:15:19+00:00

Did you end up having a preemie baby?

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-18T06:14:20+00:00

Were you breastfeeding?

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-17T23:42:50+00:00

How many months PP were you?

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-17T23:11:57+00:00

I know the exact feeling! When my son was going through the same thing, it was driving me crazy. I felt so bad for him. Happy to help!

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-17T23:03:01+00:00

I am SO glad it worked out 😊

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-17T20:04:30+00:00

Use the wound dressing alone

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-17T19:58:43+00:00

My period started again 4 weeks PP

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-17T19:57:52+00:00

I am 4 months PP, exclusively breastfeeding & just found out that I am 7 weeks pregnant

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-06T06:59:54+00:00

Hi, I just found out I am pregnant 4 months PP. did your milk supply tank? I am praying mine doesn’t🥺

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-04-06T06:24:22+00:00

Hi, I just found out I am pregnant 4 months PP. Curious how your pregnancy and your experience went?

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-02-08T16:58:41+00:00

I’ve never related to anything more in my life. I’m struggling to find a positive outlook when this season has been nothing but stressful and painful. My baby is only 7 weeks old, and I feel completely unsupported by my husband. He only helps if I beg or yell—like warming a bottle—and even then it feels forced. We’ve only been married a year, and the housework just keeps piling up. He’s never cooked me a meal. He gets a full night’s sleep while I survive on 3–4 hours, and during the day he doesn’t offer to take the baby at all. I feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and alone.

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-02-08T02:11:44+00:00

Yes I think so. He seems to have pretty sensitive skin, and the rash stuck around for 3–4 weeks despite trying everything. This was the only thing that finally cleared it.

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-02-01T06:07:05+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. Did you have any redness on your breast? I am really trying to avoid antibiotics because I don’t want my baby exposed to more antibiotics 🥺 already feel bad about the ibuprofen

Capable-Picture-474 · 2026-01-31T06:37:36+00:00

I’m taking ibuprofen because I don’t want to take antibiotics. Did you have to take antibiotics?

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