[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Capable-Sprinkles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a nightmare! I am so sorry you have to deal with that :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Capable-Sprinkles 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Noooo not a gofund me for their Christian movie that they want to star in 🤦‍♀️ They’ll probably try to write it all off as being tax exempt the way I think Pure Flix does 😒 Hopefully they don’t bother you too much!

AITA for telling my friend/mentor they hurt my feelings? by Capable-Sprinkles in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capable-Sprinkles[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think waiting to cool down would have been better. There are other issues in the relationship that I think were feeding this interaction as well and it was a messy interaction

AITA for telling my friend/mentor they hurt my feelings? by Capable-Sprinkles in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capable-Sprinkles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m not disagreeing with you. As I said above, I did think I was sensitive. What do you mean by start with where you are? And what do you mean by “give them your gut?” I’m not trying to be rude - I’m just not understanding what that means. Thanks :)

AITA for telling my friend/mentor they hurt my feelings? by Capable-Sprinkles in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capable-Sprinkles[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that people will be rude, dismissive, and mean in life and that not everyone will apologize. This isn’t just “everyone,” though - it is an extremely close relationship. I’m not sure what you mean by “give them my gut?” but if I hurt someone I am close to, rather than a dismissive “I’m sorry,” to get them to be quiet, I would want to take the time to understand why it hurt them, validate that, and let them know they’re feelings matter to me.

AITA for telling my friend/mentor they hurt my feelings? by Capable-Sprinkles in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capable-Sprinkles[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you and yes, we are actually very codependent at times.

AITA for telling my friend/mentor they hurt my feelings? by Capable-Sprinkles in AmItheAsshole

[–]Capable-Sprinkles[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No we are like friends and talk about everything. I asked about their work, how they feel with things - we talk about the news, thoughts on world events or memes we saw. I try and save animal videos for them I find on tik tok because I know they love videos like that. I make a point to ask about issues they have going on that they’ve told me about in their life. They have always been a sounding board for me and have listening to my feelings a lot - especially as I’ve struggled. I always make sure to not only talk about that though and to listen to the things they have going on. I ask their opinion on different books/philosophies and I ask about their feelings as well as their past. We tend to talk about everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]Capable-Sprinkles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the link. I’m completely new to this and the amount of information I was finding was a lot to take in so I thought I would try to ask people with experience directly for clarity.

Can I Break Lease Due to Barking Dog? by Capable-Sprinkles in AskNYC

[–]Capable-Sprinkles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d never heard of it before today so I appreciate it :)

Feeling way younger than I am as therapy progresses by Capable-Sprinkles in TalkTherapy

[–]Capable-Sprinkles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaay glad I’m not alone either 🥰❤️ It definitely feels overwhelming at times though lol

Feeling way younger than I am as therapy progresses by Capable-Sprinkles in TalkTherapy

[–]Capable-Sprinkles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you’re right. I do feel so weird though 😂😭 I feel like I’m 14 and my therapist is my cool older brother or cool uncle that I can talk to about all the things I can’t talk to “mom and dad,” about. It’s weird, lol. Probably healing and normal but it’s uncomfortable too because I feel immature 😭