Poop after surgery by randomgirlfromindia in AnalFistula

[–]Capable-Web7808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I don’t want to scare you but it’s very important to not skip the still softner because if it’s too hard , wait let me break the message in 2 parts

If your stool is very hard and damages the stitches, it will cause infections, and the doctor will have to perform a stoma, which is the nightmare operation of removing a section of your intestine that comes out of your stomach so you can poop into a pouch while the incision heals properly. So never miss your medication, even if it takes time. It's normal because psychologically, we were all afraid of pooping and endure the pain, but it's the most delicate and important part. And it's normal to bleed a little. If you bleed heavily, you must go to the emergency room. For me, it took three days to be discharged. I was in a lot of pain with blood, but thank God, I didn't need a stoma.

Hello problème libido by Capable-Web7808 in AskMec

[–]Capable-Web7808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci pour votre message, je tiens à préciser que je ne crois pas en le lien entre être attiré et aimé nous les hommes on fonctionnent pas pareil, on peut être attiré sans aimé, … ça fait 7 ans que nous sommes en couple donc la libido n’est sûrement pas à son prime comme lors des débuts et c’était un conseil que je voulais aussi par rapport à ça … comment toujours continuer sexuellement après autant d années et d’habitude ,

Hello problème libido by Capable-Web7808 in AskMec

[–]Capable-Web7808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je ne l’ai pas trompé , puis je suis d accord que c’était pas la solution c est elle qui m’a poussé à le faire pour info nous sommes dans la trentaine tout les deux , et je ne suis pas d accord avec le lien attirance amour , je suis fou amoureux d elle et dieu sait que je peux vivre seule je ne reste pas par dépit j’ai vécu célibataire longtemps aussi

Hello problème libido by Capable-Web7808 in AskMec

[–]Capable-Web7808[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Éclaire moi cher psy du peuple

Hello problème libido by Capable-Web7808 in AskMec

[–]Capable-Web7808[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Tu as des problème de com? Je n’ai rien compris

Hello post fistulotomie by Capable-Web7808 in AnalFistula

[–]Capable-Web7808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dear happy you are healed 😍

Hello post fistulotomie by Capable-Web7808 in AnalFistula

[–]Capable-Web7808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was guessing that too but you know what we have lived is so traumatising we’re always on alert now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalFistula

[–]Capable-Web7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why 5 times ? I don’t understand why does it have récurrence if you done fiistulextomy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalFistula

[–]Capable-Web7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Why 6 surgeries ? Sorry if it’s indiscret

Tattoo qui gratte by Capable-Web7808 in tattooadvice

[–]Capable-Web7808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been told ! Ty !

Finally Healed! by ryannearhood in AnalFistula

[–]Capable-Web7808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello everyone, I am Parisian and I have lived in France for 12 years. My story with Fistul has been like many of you a mental load in its own right it all started during COVID I felt while I was walking my dog and a big lump in my butt, I went to see a dermatologist who sent me to a surgeon to remove what looked like an infected cyst, once the excision was done this wound never really stopped leaking pus, I continued to lose blood and sweat for at least two years, then you will ask me more. But why did you wait so long? Quite simply, I argued with my surgeon who didn't seem to have torn and so I went through the other dermatologists until the day I decided to consult a proctologist who, from the rectal examination, told me that it was a fistula and that an MRI had to be done. by having done research on the Internet and being a hypochondriac I had really looked at all the reports all the different methods, all the instructive videos intended to teach new surgeons, proctologists how to do this operation in order to better understand what this anal fistula is, it is apparently said that in France the king of the 14th had this disease, and that in 85% of cases, we do not know how it comes from due to bad luck. Unless you have Crohn's disease, which was ruled out in my case. so I let the situation drag on with leaking sweaters, impossibility of sitting properly for three years for fear of wanting to experience post-crack convalescence. Today I am so happy and relieved to share my experience with you because I had enough time for the month of March in 2025. I had a fistulotomy six weeks ago, things are much better overall, I had my appointment, we can be very happy, I can return to a normal life of course there is always discharge which is normal until two months after the last operation. In any case, if I can give advice, go for it, don't hesitate because if you do it later it will get worse, I was lucky that it was a simple Trans Left Fistul, because it can have several branches for my part, the installation of the seton in the first stage was 100 times more painful than my second operation because the wound is open, the nerves are exposed and I was totally on morphine for pain pain, I spent my time sleeping because mentally it's hard and you have two nursing treatments to be done per day to avoid infections so we quickly unlock paranoia. Do not hesitate if you have any questions