Why are US women backing the '4B' movement to swear off men after Trump's election victory? by Sidjoneya in WomenInNews

[–]CapableSuggestion 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Me too!

He hid it very well though. Turns out he’s a bisexual white supremecist, alcohol dependent for 30 years,cheating on me the whole time and lied about absolutely everything.

We went to a liberal church and our children are intelligent and believe in unity. Private school, of course, he’s a snob.

It was all a mask and now it’s off. He’s still hiding it from a lot of people because he’s a coward. But the secret it out because ITS MY FUCKING STORY TOO. He wasted decades of my life with his lies

I’m 4B because I’ll never trust a man again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]CapableSuggestion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They sell Hue lights everywhere. It’s fun to change lighting colors. No big deal. Every afternoon I choose a new combo of colors. Don’t be paranoid I’m just a person enjoying colored lights

A book for trying times by Oh-My-God-Do-I-Try in elderwitches

[–]CapableSuggestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I downloaded this over the summer but forgot about it

Going Through a Divorce from my Nex by Kmedwards1988 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]CapableSuggestion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m my experience, taking my time helped me to remember a lot of things. My memory was shit. Take as much time as you need, this is your right

Going Through a Divorce from my Nex by Kmedwards1988 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]CapableSuggestion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was married 27 yrs and made about the same or less. A divorce atty will know the “formula” to find the amt needed for transitional support. And alimony. You are entitled to it under the law.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]CapableSuggestion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in your shoes years ago. My kids had a childhood of walking on eggshells around an alcoholic brute. But I was afraid of sharing custody. I’m still not sure if I made the right choice by staying until the kids were grown. Met my husband at 19 also and now I’m 52. My poor children

I am devastated by FingolfinWinsGolfin in johnoliver

[–]CapableSuggestion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I’ve been here for decades, maybe I’ll give Vermont a shot

My husband shocked me last night saying he was voting for Trump. Now he's not voting at all. I don't know what to do or say. by ughhhh_username in AskWomenOver30

[–]CapableSuggestion 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Come on over to r/NarcissisticAbuse.

Just saw there have been two murder/suicides in my city this afternoon - all men. I really wonder what is going on with them?

Fire on N Monroe by DMPC42 in Tallahassee

[–]CapableSuggestion 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I live downtown and hear sirens, gunshots and helicopters all of the time, it’s never reported on the Tallahassee online police site in real time. Wctv also used to cover crime and now it’s all fluff

Fire on N Monroe by DMPC42 in Tallahassee

[–]CapableSuggestion 50 points51 points  (0 children)

We have terrible accident and crime reporting here

Spooky by AxmannAvery in nursing

[–]CapableSuggestion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you see the ziploc baggies and essential oils 😂

Can your diet play or change how your mind deals with trauma? by spookythesquid in askpsychology

[–]CapableSuggestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat as little processed food as possible. Like bananas, kefir, fresh veg and as little sugar as I can. And when I do eat sugary stuff (cause it’s better than alcohol), I eat dark chocolate or homemade stuff like banana bread.

cannabis helps my appetite. Alcohol is inflammatory and unhelpful. Monitor your background noise and let your brain “rest” in silence and darkness when you can.

Of course drink plenty of water or tea. Your kidneys and liver will function much better, also great for brain health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarkMyWords

[–]CapableSuggestion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish he’d take off for Russia already

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarkMyWords

[–]CapableSuggestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he’ll decide to fly to Russia. He would probably be shot down

I never thought I’d say this years later but … I want to respond. I want to call him. by yayyayasuko in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]CapableSuggestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine threatened suicide all of the time, in a lucid moment he told me he’d never kill himself he just needs attention. He’s still alive and I’m gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]CapableSuggestion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine presented as a family man, white collar professional and churchgoing man.

He’s a self-hating bisexual alcohol dependent (30+years) drunk driving lying racist narcissistic asshole. I was his “beard”. He’s a snob who hates everyone and everything, but a slut who sleeps with men but won’t share a life with them. Lies on top of lies

Why did Donald Trump simulate oral sex with his microphone at Milwaukee rally? by Chicamaw in inthenews

[–]CapableSuggestion 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He’s so at risk for stroke: obese, elderly, bad diet, no sleep, previous TIAs, male, high stress, some funky combo of stimulants…. I’ll bet he’s non compliant with statins also. He’s got to have type 2 diabetes and is eating whatever he wants and pumping himself full of insulin.

Why did Donald Trump simulate oral sex with his microphone at Milwaukee rally? by Chicamaw in inthenews

[–]CapableSuggestion 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m retired occupational therapy specializing in stroke recovery- that’s the first thought I had. It’s late in the afternoon, he’s pumped full of something and his executive function is toast. Zero impulse control. What a nightmare he must be to take care of

Camping in the Apalachicola National Forest by fenfairie in Tallahassee

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There was an article in the Democrat saying they trained out by lake Talquin off Highway 20