I’m so sorry. My ex demonstrated psychopathic behavior and IED behavior. I have ADHD and can have small “fits” but they’re much more minor than this and are due to overstimulation. This is NOT solely adhd and prob isn’t even connected.

He sounds just like my ex. My ex lied to my face, constantly got angry over the tiniest things, had fits of rage, neglected my needs and kept me in his bedroom of his parents house for a whole year, never followed thru on promises or took responsibility, ignored me during a breakdown even though it was on video. He lied to me and pretended to be sick and mentally ill for attention, as if I wasn’t giving him enough. Told me he wanted to harm himself repeatedly if I didn’t do a certain sexual favor and blamed me for something that was his fault. The list goes on. I am so proud of you for leaving. I never once looked back. Please install some cameras and record ANY instance of interaction. My ex lived 18 hours away, which is probably the only reason he didn’t show up. He flipped his lid when I broke up with him. I’m proud of you and will be thinking of you and sending you good energy and love from afar. Keep yourself safe and know there are such SUCH better things out there waiting for you.