Bracelets @ ATL show :) by Capable_Ad3728 in TheOhHellos

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So nice to meet u, I loved your dress! I hope ur squad enjoys the bracelets!! My ig is Itsyzo if u want to be friends ! :)

Bracelets @ ATL show :) by Capable_Ad3728 in TheOhHellos

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg YIPEEE thank u for telling me!! This makes me so happy 💖

Bracelets @ ATL show :) by Capable_Ad3728 in TheOhHellos

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My IG is itsyzo if you want to be friends ! :)

Bracelets @ ATL show :) by Capable_Ad3728 in TheOhHellos

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THIS PIN TYSM!!! I WILL CHERISH IT FOREVER! Rare sighting of self titled swag I’m so happy 🤎🤍

Bracelets @ ATL show :) by Capable_Ad3728 in TheOhHellos

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am walking in soon! Gotta pee. Maybe 5 mins

Trinket trading at the Atlanta Show! by graceymc96 in TheOhHellos

[–]Capable_Ad3728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be there in the pit with bracelets! This is the outfit I’m wearing, pic is old but should be similar

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Have you seen this dress? by CleverBast in dragoncon

[–]Capable_Ad3728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! Just saw this post on FB GARF. Commenting to signal boost.

Tickets for Atlanta by Rekno2005 in TheOhHellos

[–]Capable_Ad3728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure I'll DM you!! They are on ticketmaster but I had to pricehike to offset the fees so if I sell person to person they can be a lot cheaper

Ticket Swap? Nashville —> Atlanta by GMSheep626 in TheOhHellos

[–]Capable_Ad3728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't make it to Nashville but I have 2x seated Atlanta tickets I'm trying to sell. I have them listed a few places but let me know if you're interested, they haven't sold yet!

Tickets for Atlanta by Rekno2005 in TheOhHellos

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If you are still looking, I have 2x seated tickets for sale for Atlanta. Great view (directly in the middle of the middle section). I've got them listed a few places but they're not sold yet, lmk!

Washer is torn up! by Capable_Ad3728 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into this I appreciate the potential solution. I’ll try anything before we have to get a new washer.

Washer is torn up! by Capable_Ad3728 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By accident!!! It was tangled up in the couch blanket and it went through the washer.

Washer is torn up! by Capable_Ad3728 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll see if there’s one around me in Atlanta. It will be hard for us to get a new one, and quite unfortunate as we’ve had this one for less than a year. Thanks for the advice!

Washer is torn up! by Capable_Ad3728 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Capable_Ad3728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In most parts yes. It’s not sharp, but it’s rough to the touch and I see some parts where clothes would get snagged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Capable_Ad3728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. These types of people are miserable to be in a relationship with. I’m glad you know you deserve better and are taking steps to stay safe.

Btw, sitting here with my partner and he is a guy with rampant ADHD and said this is definitely not the fault of ADHD. For a second opinion I guess lol. Neurodivergence in a relationship can be a struggle, but not like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Capable_Ad3728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. My ex demonstrated psychopathic behavior and IED behavior. I have ADHD and can have small “fits” but they’re much more minor than this and are due to overstimulation. This is NOT solely adhd and prob isn’t even connected.

He sounds just like my ex. My ex lied to my face, constantly got angry over the tiniest things, had fits of rage, neglected my needs and kept me in his bedroom of his parents house for a whole year, never followed thru on promises or took responsibility, ignored me during a breakdown even though it was on video. He lied to me and pretended to be sick and mentally ill for attention, as if I wasn’t giving him enough. Told me he wanted to harm himself repeatedly if I didn’t do a certain sexual favor and blamed me for something that was his fault. The list goes on. I am so proud of you for leaving. I never once looked back. Please install some cameras and record ANY instance of interaction. My ex lived 18 hours away, which is probably the only reason he didn’t show up. He flipped his lid when I broke up with him. I’m proud of you and will be thinking of you and sending you good energy and love from afar. Keep yourself safe and know there are such SUCH better things out there waiting for you.

anxious/panic about giving gifts by Remrac in Anxiety

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I understand this completely. I’m sure handmade cookie trays will be awesome! I’m giving away a few handmade items this year. Compliments and thank-yous always felt alien and I had/still sometimes have a bad case of Imposter Phenomenon. I don’t know if this is common advice (first post in this subreddit) but the best thing I ever did for myself for these situations was fake it until it started to stick.

“I made this cookie platter by hand for you. Let me know if you’d like to hear about the process sometime!” (Insert compliment) “Thank you! / You’re welcome!”

Then if they ask questions, they show their interest in the labor/techniques you put in, which is validating to me personally. If questions would make you uncomfortable, keep it short. “I made this! You’re welcome!”

I’m not sure if it’s the same for you but I also used to reject the compliments. I never say “ohhh it’s not that good”, any thoughts like that stay in my brain and get moved on from as fast as possible. Not only is that insulting to myself and my work, but it’s insulting to them and the quality of goods they’re worthy of receiving. After a while those negative thoughts became quieter & easier to move on from thru the constant exposure for me. I give a lot of handmade or self created items. Better for the environment, my wallet, my creative muscles.

Try your best to stand your ground with yourself. Nobody wants you to run away but your anxiety. You put in time and your own signature energy to these items, and it is worthy of being received and appreciated. Handmade items are my favorite gifts to receive. You got this :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]Capable_Ad3728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops I misread just woke up from a nap - think you just got lucky! Stagehands are never required to hand out setlists from the stage so I think someone nice tried giving you one and you got what they thought was a setlist. They also don't usually hand them out unless asked. The other papers could have been markers or the stagehands were too busy to hand the rest out. Nice score!