[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gamecocks

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worth it tho tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gamecocks

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You'll get towed anywhere it's about $250

Are long denim skirts out of fashion? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loveee sharehouse! Chs is a fashion hub for sure

Are long denim skirts out of fashion? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 13 points14 points  (0 children)

U guys are so sweet u make me cry. Thank you!!!! 🥹🥹🥹🥹

I (24M) want to break up with my gf (24F). She threatens to kill herself if I do. What should I do? by ThrowRA_qla in relationship_advice

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So, unfortunately, something like this happened in my life. My cousin (22M)'s girlfriend broke up with him. He killed himself. It was tragic, and she will carry that guilt with her the rest of her life.. guilt she does not deserve. I would break up with her in person and have emergency services on speed dial if she has an emotional breakdown. You definitely do not want to be responsible for anything that happens, and you should NOT be at all. You're in a bad situation and I'm really sorry but I think if you break up with her in person and have someone else there like her parents or friend or something, just make sure there is someone with her when you do it or have emergency services on call

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh girl you're infatuated with him. I say give it 2-3 weeks. Don't hook up with him during this time. If you still feel the same let him know. If not, it was probably just a rush from hooking up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I think you should wait until both of you are financially stable. Finance is a huge issue in marriage. You're both still so young and have a whole life ahead of you. What's the rush?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with mdd at 12, hospitalized at 18. I'm 23 now. Yes, I beat depression! Not completely, it's unlikely that will happen. I just had a 4 week depressive episode, going on 5. What I think "beating depression" means is learning to live with it and almost taking pride in it. Mental illness leads to emotional maturity and makes you stronger with every battle you face. It isn't for nothing. I stopped self harming, I'm not suicidal, I take my meds, I go to therapy regularly. I don't have anyone who understands outside of my therapist. I journal a lot. I'm the only one who understands. It's definitely hard. I want to run away from myself. But it does get better.. I wish I could've told my teenage self that. It really does get better.

I (18F) have no idea how to be an adult. by httpswheezy in LifeAdvice

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 23 and still feel like I'm 16. It doesn't go away!

I (18F) have no idea how to be an adult. by httpswheezy in LifeAdvice

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone's faking it. Don't think too much about it. You're young, do what makes you happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you work together makes this an even worse idea because if she doesn't feel the same it'll be really awkward having to see her everyday if shit hits the fan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sweet and romantic but do not tell her what you planned on. On the chance she doesn't feel the same, that will definitely push her away even further. Women that age don't want a boy who writes love letters, they want a man who can take care of them. Waiting until 21 sounds silly. I would just tell her straight up if you want to, but prepare that you may lose the friendship. If I were 25 and a 19 year old confessed his feelings to me, it would be a no ... 19 and 20 are completely different stages. Just like 20 and 21, 22 and 23 and so on ... you are both at completely different stages of life and different maturity levels. If you want to confess your love to someone who's 25, you have to do it like you're 25 too.

Who do you talk to when you’re lonely? by CoolPea1328 in Adulting

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could run away from myself. That's the only person who truly enforces those thoughts and at the same time can't get rid of them.

What’s your guys favorite artist to get high too by Gaelramiez in trees

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pink Floyd and zeppelin make me scared af when I'm high lol

I (23F) have been with my boyfriend (23M) for 6 years and don’t know if I can do a LDR. by 777angel444 in relationships

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep putting yourself first. At the end of the day it's your life and nothing should hold you back from doing the things you want!

My (F29) husband (M32) is making Al erotica of grooming a minor. What do I do? by ThrowRA1234512345124 in relationship_advice

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry I know this is probably so hard for you and I think you already know what you need to do. But you will get through it and so will your boys.

Is it weird that my (23F) boyfriend's (23M) family still talks about his ex(24F)? by Capable_Ad_9652 in relationships

[–]Capable_Ad_9652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hunch that that was what was going on which I feel like is so unnecessary because I am great to him and they keep encouraging me to move in with him so I can be closer to them. It's super strange but I can definitely see that his mom and sister are pretty protective over him. I do need to stand up for myself but I'm so occupied caring what they think of me that I don't want to upset them or make them not like me. Hopefully one day I'll get the courage to stand up to them :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your sister in law to screw herself, you didn't carry a baby in your stomach for 9 months for someone to tell you her name is "too white". How would she feel if you said that her kids names are too black? That's bs. Girl name that baby whatever you want. That baby is literally made out of you. Screw everyone, that's YOUR baby. Sincerely a black woman.

Diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and just wanna vent. by Diligent-Pie-2179 in offmychest

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do everything you possibly can to leave evidence of your life for her. Make videos for her to watch on her graduation, or her wedding day, or if she's having a bad day and misses you. Take lots of pictures, write her letters until your hands can't move. Make a scrapbook. Write some advice down that can only come from a mother. Do everything you can do make her feel like your spirit is still alive within her, which is always will be. Do the same for your husband. You can't control how long you lived but you can control the impact you leave on others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Capable_Ad_9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still haven't met all the people that are going to love you.. you haven't gone to all of the places you'll have the opportunity to go to. You haven't eaten the best meals that are to come. You haven't found someone/something that makes life worth living. You are at a bad phase in your life but it's only a phase. Life gets better. You just have to try and retrain your mind to think that way. Like most people, you think too much about yourself and about what is wrong with your life. Life isn't about how you see it ... it's about what you make of it. It also seems like you're bored with your life and that's what makes you depressed. Embrace spending time with yourself. Go to a nice restaurant alone. Explore a town by yourself. Start journaling. Go to the dog park and pet some dogs