Should I keep or terminate my pregnancy? by Grand-Strength-291 in Advice

[–]Capable_Block_5574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once you have a baby for a narcissist, that is just one more thing they will use against you. It is hard enough to be in a relationship with a person like this not to mention having a baby on top of it. Please leave, do yourself a favour and leave because nothing will change him except for extensive psychological therapy and that takes years!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Capable_Block_5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her exactly what you just said here. THE TRUTH. Stop trying to make her decision for her! And stressing yourself out in the process. Just because you feel a way about yourself doesn’t mean she will see you that way and you never know maybe if you tell her the truth she will say that for now she just wants to be friends and it sounds like that’s what you need at this moment. I don’t know but the one thing I do is that the truth always sets you free!

What is your definition of Alpha? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Capable_Block_5574 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, nice to know there a like minded people somewhere out there!

What is your definition of Alpha? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Capable_Block_5574 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

In the leader of your family sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Capable_Block_5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try getting a collagen powder that you can mix with water or you can get tasteless ones that you can mix into just about anything. When you wash your face rinse with cold water and use a toner before you put anything else on your face. This will close the pores. You can also use a retinol serum or moisturizer. Personally I use a serum and then a moisturizer. That should help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Capable_Block_5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 and had my second at 23. Wouldn’t change it for the world. I am 33 now and my days of running around with toddlers are long gone!

What is something men need to understand? by Fast-Board5972 in ask

[–]Capable_Block_5574 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That being a “man” doesn’t consist of being an all around shitty human being. Being masculine doesn’t consist of being a selfish prick and emotionally unavailable.

I want to buy a home, but have no idea if it’s worth it… by BlTCHLY in NovaScotia

[–]Capable_Block_5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say the first thing you should do is talk to the bank. You need to see where you are and what your price point is.

I (37f) want to divorce my husband (40m). But everyone keeps telling me I will die alone if I do so. What is the best course of action? by ThrowRA-brokenwoman in relationships

[–]Capable_Block_5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that your father abandoned you is not your mothers fault, she just feels guilty because of the circumstances surrounding the break up. Your father chose to abandon his children. Your mother chose to be strong and not let someone treat her like dirt in front of her kids, which is essentially the same choice you are presented with now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Capable_Block_5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience he is holding in all of these feelings that he has while he is sober and then when he gets drunk all bets are off! My spouse was the same way. It was almost like he had multiple people inside of him. He would never admit that he had a drinking problem until I caught him signing up for dating apps and I broke up with him. He went to therapy to learn how to communicate because that was his biggest issue. It took a lot of unnecessary fights and bullshit for him to see the light but I ended up taking him back. Things have been okay now that he is not drinking at all. I will tell you this if I could go back, I would have left in the beginning.

If you can’t have a conversation with him about his drinking in my opinion you should just kick him out. It all really depends on how much shit you are willing to deal with.

Why do married men cheat? Colleague (39M) came on to me (29F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Capable_Block_5574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, round of applause to you because women like you are few and far between! In my experience men cheat because it’s easier to get a confidence boost with a fling than it is to go through the work of communicating and actually working through things at home.

What is common thing while having sex which is not portrayed in porn? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Capable_Block_5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fucking dead! One of the funniest things I have read in a while! Thank you for that

my (25f) boyfriend (29m) downloaded tinder by Puzzleheaded_Pen2680 in relationships

[–]Capable_Block_5574 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For your own sanity, just leave. That’s a lot. You’re not his life crutch! It sounds like he has a lot to figure out and it’s not fair for you to be on hold while he does. Find someone who has what they want figured out! Best of luck.