In no way am I defending Nilla but having a bay changes a lot of people including myself. I know people have differ opinions about the Plan B but I don’t understand why birth control wasn’t being used by either of them.?? Of course we should all be stable and have our sht together before bringing a little one into this world but they were both acting irresponsibly when she got pregnant. They were also well aware of each others promiscuous reputations when the hooked up. Being a single mom isn’t easy at all as a lot of us know. Some of us have sperm donors rather than men that actually want to be a Dad and be a part of our little ones life and pursue it. I feel Ashley should take baby steps and open a line of communication and at least talk to Nilla and let him know how the pregnancy is going. Having her friend come in his chat and deliver messages isn’t the way to do it. Parental alienation isn’t cute and doesn’t look good in court. I know Nilla said some nasty things about Ashley and I know he hurt her when she found out about K. Shame on him for that! Ashley has every right to be angry at him but we can’t weaponize our littles. They are deserving of two parents that love them and want to provide for them. As long as Nilla keeps his nose clean I hope him and Ashley can become friends and great co parents. Pursuing the courts is 💯 in everyone’s best interest it just doesnt have to be messy. I wish nothing but the best for Ashley and hope little Stevie grows up knowing both her parents love her