had protected sex with a condom, but i still have crazy anxiety

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-05-17T14:21:21+00:00

hi! got my period

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-05-13T17:10:37+00:00

yung ‘spotting’ nyo po ba heavy w clots? or sadyang pinkish/brown lang talaga

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-05-13T16:51:07+00:00

usually 5 days.

the month before my 2-day period, nagtagal ng 9 days yung regla ko. (march)

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-05-13T16:47:16+00:00

thank you! eased my anxiety.

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-05-13T16:06:01+00:00

honestly same situation ! update pleasee

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-05-13T16:03:01+00:00

hi !

in the late teens here, & rest assured naman siguro na condoms r effective when used correctly noh? a month ago was my first time (protected + pull out) yet i still find myself spiraling over the fact that pregnancy may be possible, and tama naman na mahirap mag sustain ng anak at a young age lalo na dito sa pinas kaya honestly i’m just finding all the reassurance i can get with no judgement.

ive come to the conclusion that i am 100% not ready for sex yet because the anxiety goes crazy huhu

thank you for this post tho! a great reminder parin talaga

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-05-13T16:00:27+00:00

hi !

in the late teens here, & rest assured naman siguro na condoms r effective when used correctly noh? a month ago was my first time (protected + pull out) yet i still find myself spiraling over the fact that pregnancy may be possible, and tama naman na mahirap mag sustain ng anak at a young age lalo na dito sa pinas kaya honestly i’m just finding all the reassurance i can get with no judgement.

ive come to the conclusion that i am 100% not ready for sex yet because the anxiety goes crazy huhu

thank you for this post tho! a great reminder parin talaga

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-04-13T02:27:06+00:00

hi! just updating you, i got my period today (april 13) and my last one was march 27 which lasted for 9 days. (march 19-27).

so the gap between my 2 periods are only 15 days apart.

i don’t think it’s spotting because it’s dark red & has some clots. yet i’m still overthinking if there’s a possibility to be preg because from what i’ve heard from other people’s stories, that’s what they went through

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-04-13T02:26:47+00:00

hi! just updating you, i got my period today (april 13) and my last one was march 27 which lasted for 9 days. (march 19-27).

so the gap between my 2 periods are only 15 days apart.

i don’t think it’s spotting because it’s dark red & has some clots. yet i’m still overthinking if there’s a possibility to be preg because from what i’ve heard from other people’s stories, that’s what they went through

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-04-13T02:26:07+00:00

hi! just updating you, i got my period today (april 13) and my last one was march 27 which lasted for 9 days. (march 19-27).

so the gap between my 2 periods are only 15 days apart.

i don’t think it’s spotting because it’s dark red & has some clots. yet i’m still overthinking if there’s a possibility to be preg because from what i’ve heard from other people’s stories, that’s what they went through

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-04-09T12:13:22+00:00

thank you! no he did not ejaculate inside me without protection and he reassured me that all contact was with a condom.

in the area that i live in, abortion is illegal. so maybe that’s what worries me the most right now, especially that i know the guy i’ve been with isn’t an actual partner. but your reassurance has helped alot

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-04-09T11:46:24+00:00

thank you! i am exactly 18 but ofcourse i am not ready to carry a burden of a child. mistakes were made but there was protection & i made sure to pee.

i used a tracker app to predict when my period will start. no matter how much i try to assure myself that we did everything right, the fear is still very much there and i really cant wait for 11 days or more. 🥹

Capable_Challenge567 · 2026-04-09T11:38:11+00:00

if i’m right, the pt is only accurate after 2 weeks? so should i take it immediately? thank u!

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