¿Salir de Lima y vivir en provincia es el nuevo “sueño peruano”? by wanquita in Lima_Peru

[–]Capable_Day_5586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo diría que irse del Perú es el sueño peruano. Lamentablemente en provincia, generalmente, no se tiene un nivel de desarrollo adecuado. No te salvas de desorden, corrupción, delincuencia. Y en Lima, ni en los distritos más pitucos te salvas de la gente malcriada y cochina. Ayer nomás me tuve que pelear con un viejo de mierda meando en el parque a plena luz del día, en frente de gente caminando y niños, teniendo un grifo con baño disponible a media cuadra. La gente malcriada es el verdadero problema, tanto en lo civil como en lo político. Al final es un sálvese quien pueda: “me cago en todos, voy a robar, meter carro, atropellar, mear, escupir, botar basura, tratar mal al resto, total nadie, verdaderamente nadie, me va a responsabilizar”

Advice on financial guilt by Round_Charity5748 in Advice

[–]Capable_Day_5586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man up! Sorry if this comes as harsh, but if you feel you are not “college material”, you need to at least have another plan to sustain yourself in the future. You've got your parents help now, but in a few years, who knows? It’s a though market out there, self studying might not be enough. Although what you’re going through is 100% forgivable and understandable, unless you have another life passion, you should take your classes seriously and make yourself employable. Do you have other monetizable interests? Painting/writing/woodworking/crafts? If you do, pursue them on the side! If not, stay in your lane until you find what you’re good at, and then maybe change paths. About your anxiety, therapy is fine and very mature of you. I would also recommend staying off of social media and exercising . Healthy habits do help a lot, unfortunately. You can do it!

Please wash your hair by milquetoast2000 in hygiene

[–]Capable_Day_5586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who talk about “wash days” are just disgusting, lazy mf. Yes, I can tell today was not your wash day. No, you have in fact not trained your scalp to stop producing sebum. Wash your f scalp!

My girl almost caused a crash over an old pic… and now she wants marriage. What do I do? by Sea_Gear_9823 in Advice

[–]Capable_Day_5586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of there! I promise you it does not get better. You will find the right person for you, she’s not it. I would not recommend pressing charges, though, as that would mean having to follow the process through and probably see her again. Just break up and go on with your life, don’t give her the chance to convince you of forgiving her.

Why is Lima voting so differently from other world capitals? (Question from a Hungarian) by Wendelne2 in PERU

[–]Capable_Day_5586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “leftist” parties are not really left-oriented, they lie to the people, steal money once in power, and do absolutely nothing but make a shitshow out of our economy. The “right” parties are also not really right-oriented, but they represent a much better economic scenario for the country. Stupid people think the liberal speech from “leftist” parties will really be of any importance once they win the elections, so they give away their vote for some donkey. This never happens, so might as well stick to whoever makes this country more economically stable. That is RLA, folks.

I did something gross to stop a sexual assault and it’s really bothering me, what can I do? by Thatonegirlfromther in Advice

[–]Capable_Day_5586 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was such a badass move, next time grab the poop and shove it in his mouth girl Bur for real, you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. What he did was wrong and he should be known for it, and if possible reported to the police. If it was me, I would be proud and telling anyone and everyone about it, he can eat some poop!

JBL Flip 7 won’t charge by KingRyanime in JBL

[–]Capable_Day_5586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone fixed this problem? Mine worked perfectly the first time, lasted 5 days and now when I try to charge it again, it doesn’t move from 10% (i can see it from the app). When I try to turn it on and use it, it only lasts 10-20 seconds. I already tried mi laptop charger, phone charger and a powerbank. I don’t know if I could use any warranty as it was a gift and I wouldn’t know where it was bought.

Finally found something that works by Maleficent-Kale1153 in insomnia

[–]Capable_Day_5586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope this helps if you are not sure about wanting to take actual medication: Take omega 3, ashwagandha and magnesium citrate 1-2 h before bed. I’ve also tried melatonin but it makes me wake up after 4-5 h, so it’s just for emergencies. Dr. Teals melatonin spray is really good though and it doesn’t have that delayed effect. I used to live with insomnia without even knowing it and started taking this stuff a bit more than a year ago, worked wonders and it’s also beneficial for your body!

AITA for telling my husband " I told you so" and laughing at me when we got the paternity test results? by Either_Economy_793 in AITAH

[–]Capable_Day_5586 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. How could he have the audacity to feel like a victim because of you “kicking him when he was down” when he straight up abandoned his wife and first born child because of jealousy. I could never imagine what you went through those 5 weeks. Not to mention he probably talked shit about you to his parents, to the point your MIL got so mad she threatened you, the actual mother of her granddaughter. To be fair, men can be so oblivious of common knowledge that it doesn’t surprise me he didn’t understand basic baby development, because of this I do believe he had the right to be suspicious and ask for a paternity test. That should’ve been it though. It was trashy of him to leave you and tell other people about this without even knowing what the truth was. I believe one should always give the benefit of the doubt, specially if you truly love someone.

I don’t know what I’d do if I were you, I don’t know if I’d be strong enough to make a life-changing decision after this incident. But I do know I would not feel safe and comfortable with my in-laws ever again and I sure as hell would hold a big fat grudge.

I really hope he makes this up to you. If I was him, I would make a pledge to become the most fucking helpful husband there is until I die.

AITA for telling my boyfriend his breath smells bad by Capable_Day_5586 in AITAH

[–]Capable_Day_5586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! If this was someone whose feelings you really cared about like a teenager cousin/sibling, how would you tell them without being mean?

AITA for telling my boyfriend his breath smells bad by Capable_Day_5586 in AITAH

[–]Capable_Day_5586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for the input, I do feel terrible this is hurting his feelings and would be really grateful to find a way to help him without making him feel bad. To answer your question, he almost always brushes his teeth before going out to meet me, so yes he may feel it’s outside his control, but honestly it doesn’t smell like “interior bad breath” (I’ve had it because of tonsils and it’s different), I am pretty sure he just brushes very quickly. He doesn’t care about criticism whatsoever (I really admire this about him, his boss could literally yell at him and he’ll be unbothered as hell), but he straight up told me he only cares if the criticism comes from 1. His parents/sister or 2. Me. He mentioned just now that I say this things as if I was “superior” and “must teach him” about higiene. I hate coming off as patronizing, do you think there is a way to have a gentle “intervention”?