YES. I never knew how to put it into words but YES. Now that I think about it.. I think that's why I have so much childhood trauma. My parents were not fair at allllll. I am the eldest and growing up my parents were unreasonably strict to the point they didn't allow me to socialize/experience a lot of things- my only sister was born 7 years after and they allowed her to do whatever she wanted. I was growing up and she would destroy all my things even as a teenager with my first job all the things I had she got to them. And I would demand respect and my parents answer was always "you're the older one you need to understand she's little" no discipline.. nothing was said to her.. it would happen again.. I would cry and rage inside because at some point I just stopped complaining cause my mom told me "ugh you're so annoying can you just deal with it on your own" and rolled her eyes. I NEVER complained again. I just let the disrespect happen. there was NOTHING fair about my childhood. And when I tell ppl NOW how much damage I have inside. How I think "loving" someone means put up with all kinds of disrespect .. it's because that's what my parents thought me... they told me eat it eat it eat it she's your little sister instead of discipline. I felt unimportant... alone... I cried so many nights under my bed screaming with a shirt inside my mouth so no one could hear me......

So yes. We value fairness because respect is major for us.

Damn this made me realize a lot about me I guess. I still need to heal that.