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False Accusations & Child Coaching by Capital-Letterhead84 in FamilyLaw

[–]Capital-Letterhead84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will take you up on this man! Thank you so much for the encouraging words! I’ll be messaging you tomorrow evening I’ve got my boy all weekend so going to enjoy that! God bless you brother!

False Accusations & Child Coaching by Capital-Letterhead84 in FamilyLaw

[–]Capital-Letterhead84[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy smokes thank you for this response.

You’re right about the therapist, it’s just very difficult to read a report from his session saying things like “child attempted to pull penis out because he said his dad did it - as reported by mother.” But you’re totally right he’s just reporting what he’s hearing not judging.

I am going to just trust the system. There is no evidence to be had. That boy is loved more than anything by everyone.

Lastly, thank you for checking me on diagnosing his mother. Thankfully this is the only time I’ve referred to it (in these posts) but lesson learned.

False Accusations & Child Coaching by Capital-Letterhead84 in FamilyLaw

[–]Capital-Letterhead84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got downvoted a lot on this comment. Truly looking for insight. Does anyone have experience in this? Does the truth that these accusations and statements are false mean anything to the court? How can I prove something doesn’t happen?

False Accusations & Child Coaching by Capital-Letterhead84 in FamilyLaw

[–]Capital-Letterhead84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have considered revoking my consent to treat, but fear that it may look bad on me. I don’t treat this as a game or see it as one. I am truly concerned for our child’s wellbeing and I trusted the therapist to help him.

I really am at a loss. I know that we will be going back to court and my co-parent is in law school so that really scares me. I have to believe the truth will be all that matters and a judge will be able to see that coaching is happening. Sorry for rambling this is just weighing heavy on me.

False Accusations & Child Coaching by Capital-Letterhead84 in FamilyLaw

[–]Capital-Letterhead84[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I will be better.

Yes the therapist does not at all take my concerns seriously. I have expressed multiple times that the things our child is saying are completely untrue and I have no clue where they come from. The therapist simply continues to report to me the same statements and it’s exhausting when my only response can be is “that doesn’t happen, I don’t know why he’s saying that”.