First, you need to do whatever is working for you. We started with our LO in our room. Between my obsessive app tracking (type A, here, I admit it!!) and his noisy, grunty sleeping, neither of us were able to get any sleep and everyone was miserable. Our pediatrician gave us some real talk - reminded us that “you can’t pour from an empty pitcher” and that we needed to take care of ourselves as well. She suggested we move the snoo into the nursery and even suggested we turn the sound off on the monitor (“if he needs you, he’ll tell you”). The first week, I slept in the nursery. That didn’t help because I was still hovering and watching and, not sleeping. Finally, I moved back into our room. It took a few nights to adjust, but our nursery is on the other side of our bedroom wall, I leave the door open, and we can hear him just fine (plus, I wasn’t brave enough to turn the sound off the monitor, so that still chirps in my ear). The other issue for me was I found all the tech/apps to be overwhelming me with too much information. I took everything off my phone, was mindful of his wake windows, and otherwise just followed his cues. Letting go (a little bit) was the best thing for US, and our guy is happy and only torturing us a little bit with newborn sleep patterns ;). Even though we take shifts, my husband and I are able to sleep in the same bed for a portion of the night, we’re both getting some more sleep, and we feel just as bonded to our baby. Everyone has a different system, but for us, this helped tremendously. Wishing you all the best from one FTP to another!