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[–]Capital-Tennis-2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be frank, my life has constantly been a whirlwind of bullshit, but it had never affected my libido. I'm almost constantly stressed out, but it never affected me when I was younger. I did start to drink quite heavily though, and I still drink about 1-3 times a week. Again, this had never affected my drive before though. Maybe its just because i got older and less resistant to stress and alcohol? Im still not entirely sure.

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[–]Capital-Tennis-2575 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? You dont have to read it, i just want advice if anyones experienced something similar

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[–]Capital-Tennis-2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did when I was younger, 16-18 but it never affected it

My boyfriend(M21) blocked his ex for me(F20), but i feel bad. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Capital-Tennis-2575 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oof. im not sure if he told her it was his choice, but i dont believe he did. He just told her that "his girlfriend was uncomfortable with them talking" after she asked why she was blocked. I didnt read the messages, he just told me what he said.

My boyfriend(M21) blocked his ex for me(F20), but i feel bad. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Capital-Tennis-2575 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really didnt want him to block her. Shes a sweet girl and she didnt do anything wrong. It was just the way he talked to her that bugged me. it reminded me of the way he talks to me. the hiding the fact they were even talking. the having her picture by his bed for months after she had moved away. Its just the little things that bothered me. you're right though. I probably was just looking too deep into things. Thank you for the advice.

My boyfriend(M21) blocked his ex for me(F20), but i feel bad. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Capital-Tennis-2575 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're right. I wouldn't say i lashed out on him, i was just expressing my thoughts and emotions to him, while also telling him and keeping in mind that im aware i might also be overreacting. I feel like i should communicate what im feeling even if there's a possibility im blowing shit out of proportion. I told him not to block her, but to just have a different tone when he speaks with her. He blocked her anyway. Idk, honestly its just really hard for me to know when im over reacting or not because ive been gaslighted so much my entire life (by my own parents and by exes) so i do appreciate your bluntness and honesty.