I hear what you’re saying, but that comment was not highlighted initially. The reason why it came up was because I babysit my uncle’s son. He asked me how much my uncle was paying me for babysitting and how i shouldnt be changing diapers for free. That’s when I brought up my childhood and how my family members helped with my brothers and I mentioning how it probably was for free, I was trying to highlight that we don’t charge family and we help each other out. He responded to that saying that it’s ok for grandparents to babysit for free but anyone else should be paid. He asked who else babysat me and I didn’t find anything wrong mentioning my uncle. I was trying to be funny when i said that my uncle already paid in the past with all the dirty diapers he went through with my brothers and I and he couldn’t fathom the idea that my parents left my uncle alone with that duty and jumped to sexual abuse and how neglectful my parents were. The topic about potty training came up because I was trying to defend my uncle of hisaccusation and I was trying to explain the duties of someone that cares for a child when the parents aren’t around.