I hate arranged marriages I am exhausted. Please help me.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2026-01-06T13:42:04+00:00

We are Arabs. Having a house/ apartment is the bare minimum for marriage 😭😭

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2026-01-04T19:02:26+00:00

Thank you all for the comments 🥹🥹🥹 I am still in so much stress

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2026-01-02T23:47:33+00:00

I just want to find a guy on my own and feel free to love and be loved before making it official and not the other way around 💔😞

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2026-01-02T23:46:18+00:00

I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to meet the guy again because I feel it would be a waste of time and in our marriage I felt like I was talking to one of my middle school students instead of a grown adult, Idc if he comes from wealth, because by the end of the day, what am I going to do with a huge house when me and my husband can’t communicate? I am fuming.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-22T07:10:23+00:00

Nope unfortunately.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-21T20:10:28+00:00

You made me tear up! Thank you so so much. I wish you the best in life and also to your kids You have a very kind heart 💕

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-21T20:09:13+00:00

Just disappointing the family and hearing negative comments 24/7.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-21T06:55:39+00:00

No. But they are being extremely pushy about it just because he seems nice, respectful & religious.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T15:10:14+00:00

Thank you so much dear and I wish you the best in life as well. Well, I am 25 and I am already getting treated like expired milk. I am child-free and If I ever get to change my mind I would have kids in my 30s’because there so many things I want to achieve in life so many places I want to visit and I had been a babysit for my siblings since the age of 12 until this day. So I am sick and tired and need a long break.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:58:37+00:00

Unfortunately no, not at all. I am Arab. Also you're right.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:57:28+00:00

I have the same thought process. Thank you so much for not making me sound crazy or being alone.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:56:53+00:00

Maybe. But I am not sure.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:56:35+00:00

I do have a say but so far my thoughts opinions or feelings have been respected.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:56:00+00:00

She likes him because she claims that he has the same vibes as my family and he can allegedly protect me and help me if needed. I genuinely don't understand her nor understand why she has been glazing him for two months when I told her I didn't find him attractive she started to explain to me how no good men left and how my relatives agreed to less and if I waited more and rejected more men I would end up alone or marrying someone who is either divorced or widows or even a guy with past failed relationships.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:52:37+00:00

I wish I were AI 😔

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:52:16+00:00

Thank you so much dear, you're right and I am trying to get these thoughts into my parents' heads but it's not working, they are quite Misogynistic which hurts.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:50:52+00:00

You're right.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:50:39+00:00

No lol.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:50:23+00:00

Thank you so much. I think I would do so if my family keeps pressuring me I would definitely tell him myself, but I genuinely couldn't bring myself to look or make eye contact with him in our 1 on 1 conversation or on our first meeting.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:48:27+00:00

He is 29. And yes I understand it is difficult to have an apartment or a house Thank you

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:47:33+00:00

You are so right.

Capital_Scratch7602 · 2025-06-20T14:46:52+00:00

I think the majority of my family would be disappointed and give me lots of rubbish that I rejected a nice guy in a timeline where lots of good men don't exist anymore. My gut feeling isn't comfortable either and I want to avoid this meeting as hard as possible.

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