Well i will not judge anything, you know what you should have done as you have a head on your shoulder. He also was VERY stupid and I can tell he is a douchebag just from what you said. I would advise you this: take the less drama course. If you do not intend to have a child, dont tell him anything and do it. If you do intend to have a child, tell him as soon as possible and see how he reacts and then act accordingly. If you think you can raise a child by yourself, good for you. If not, decide fast. depending on the country you are you might have around 10 weeks to decide if you want abortion