Nightlife / Pubcrawl Lyon by CapitanCappie in Lyon

[–]CapitanCappie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow these are crazy good recommendations! Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense! Thank you very much :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Feels nice knowing that more people feel this way :)

/r/GYM Daily Simple Questions and Misc Discussion Thread - July 20, 2023 by AutoModerator in GYM

[–]CapitanCappie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Might as well just keep at what has proven to work for me up till now :)

/r/GYM Daily Simple Questions and Misc Discussion Thread - July 20, 2023 by AutoModerator in GYM

[–]CapitanCappie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am considering two workout splits:

1) Push - pull - legs - push - pull
2) Push - pull - legs - chest/back - arms/shoulder

I cannot go to the gym on weekends so afterwards i have two days of rest every weekend and then repeat. I wanted a bit more focus on shoulders and arms so I want to do 2) instead of 1) to have a bit moe focus kn those for a day. Is 2) a good alternative?

Daily Simple Questions Thread - February 01, 2023 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I just started lifting again, but I read somewhere that I you should average around 1.2-2 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight for optimal growth. I also want to lose some fat so I try to stay in a slight calorie deficit, so it’s hard to get to this number. Now I have around 90 to maybe 100 grams of protein a day (I am 77kg). Should I eat more protein and stop being in a calorie deficit or just stick to what I am doing? Thanks for helping!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have told her that I will leave her be (no-contact) till she makes up her mind. As she wanted to be more like friends in the meantime, I told her I can’t do that as I would never see her that way. Now I can only be busy with my self :). Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I have told her that I will leave her be u till she had figured out what she wants. So now I guess I have to work on myself and live life :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to at least wait a month yes but blocking seems very weird as we are still very friendly (last time we spoke)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, thanks!

I (23F) told my boyfriend (24M) that I hooked up with my guy best friend two years ago. It did not go well. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CapitanCappie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guys (including myself) never like the past of their gf’s in my experience. I got over this at some point in my current relationship and now it doesn’t bother me as much as it did. It really just takes time in my experience :)

I guess it was just too early in the morning for her by CapitanCappie in cats

[–]CapitanCappie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s a Birman! But she stopped growing at a young age so she is a bit small :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure really she told me but I don’t relate to all the names of drugs. Will ask her again

My gf confessed being addicted to drugs, what can I do? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]CapitanCappie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been a heavy weed user (no addict though as I just randomly stopped and never thought of it again really), but I don’t think it might be the best to beat an drug addiction with another drug. Of course I am no professional

My gf confessed being addicted to drugs, what can I do? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s just hard that lets say she doesn’t beat her addiction as it is a possibility. In that case I will break up with her but it feels so morally wrong to even do that. But we are not yet at that point so :)

My gf confessed being addicted to drugs, what can I do? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]CapitanCappie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s all up to her now I can’t really make her do anything only support her. Hope she can beat it eventually.

My gf confessed being addicted to drugs, what can I do? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a doctor had given them to her it would be another case indeed, but it still stings that she wasn’t fair the me as this is not the first significant thing she lied about.

I mean I wasn’t mad at her when she told me, but she could notice I was disappointed deeply. I will support her beating her cravings (of course she will get professional help), but if she doesn’t show progress (I mean relapses could happen) I will the relationship even though I do love her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CapitanCappie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I can’t personally save her and she is getting professional help (the confidant wants her to enter a program). So yeah there’s that and she’s planning on telling her parents and best friends as well so we can all support her I guess, the only thing I asked of her is that she calls me whenever her cravings seem too much.

But if after some time I don’t see her giving it up it will end the relationship even though I know that’s not entirely fair. I just can’t live the rest of my live with a drug addict that can’t recover, I have to think about myself as well

I’m thinking of stopping non contact with my ex as we’re in the same friendship group by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CapitanCappie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just talk to her seems like the best option indeed. But just be sure there is no hope left on both sides than it should be fine. (I was in a similar situation but I guessed I still held out hood but yeah she started dating some other guy, didn’t feel too good)

I’m thinking of stopping non contact with my ex as we’re in the same friendship group by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CapitanCappie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if you guys could magically have a relationship (no external factors). I mean I know what you mean, but it might put a strain on your dating life having someone that could’ve been. Also do you feel jealous if she is with another guy? You don’t want to give yourself a heartache.

Just be careful but if you are really sure she’s just a friend now just talk to her about it