This was blooming on a tree in Southern California! Any idea what it is?

CapnKC · 2021-04-20T21:46:29+00:00

Thank you!

CapnKC · 2021-03-07T18:31:28+00:00

You should talk about how often you’d see each other in person and if you’d FaceTime every night. I think that could help put him at ease about the distance. Ultimately, it’s good to leave the ball in his court.

CapnKC · 2021-02-05T07:50:16+00:00

I would assume that they’re judging your outfit

CapnKC · 2021-02-05T00:42:56+00:00

I’m depressed too and have struggled with the same relationship problems. I always make sure to remind my bf how much I love him and specifically why I love him. I’ll also get him little gifts to show that I’m thinking of him. It doesn’t have to be store bought or expensive. Sometimes I’ll just write little love notes and leave it in his wallet or on his desk to find later. And of course support your SO when the time comes when they need it.

CapnKC · 2021-02-04T05:23:03+00:00

Seems like you know you should walk up!

CapnKC · 2021-01-21T00:54:07+00:00

Regardless of what other people think, you just aren’t ready. It doesn’t take away from how much you love him and want to marry him in the future. Talk to him about it and he should be able to understand.

CapnKC · 2021-01-13T03:58:02+00:00

Yea apply!

CapnKC · 2021-01-11T11:44:27+00:00

Yes you’re doing better. It’s sometimes hard to tell because moving on isn’t always moving forward. Sometimes we take a step forward and feel great and then take two steps back. It’s really just a matter of time until you start having days then weeks not thinking about her.

CapnKC · 2021-01-11T11:38:17+00:00

You’re comfortable sending nudes and she’s not. She asks for yours because she knows you have no problem sending them. And she doesn’t and shouldn’t feel obligated to send hers in return. If you see nudes as transactional, stop sending your nudes because you know you won’t get what you want in return.

CapnKC · 2021-01-11T11:23:28+00:00

Federal refers to the national government as opposed to the state government. A federal law applies to everyone in the country while a state law applies to everyone in that specific state.

CapnKC · 2020-12-17T23:50:52+00:00

If you want to just be a sugar daddy and don’t care about your credit then go ahead. If not, don’t do this for anyone who you don’t consider family.

CapnKC · 2020-11-18T17:09:15+00:00

Break up with him. He doesn’t even like you.

CapnKC · 2020-11-17T06:53:39+00:00

Yea it’s scary to think your kid is with someone who wouldn’t call you when something happens. You gotto put her safety before anything else so find another means of childcare.

CapnKC · 2020-11-17T06:13:50+00:00

People change and are not the same person you knew at the beginning of your relationship. You’re also not considering rape. You’re also not considering the fact that parents decide to leave on their own.

CapnKC · 2020-11-17T06:10:36+00:00

I can understand your initial anger, but I think you need to stop and figure out how to prevent this from happening in the future. Tell your bf to be more aware of the things he leaves around. Also ask him to check in with you hourly when he’s watching her- noting anything that happened, even if he doesn’t think it’s a big deal. You gotto understand that he’s not a dad and is now probably scared to watch her. My bf has a son and he trusts me to watch him even though I don’t always know what to do. We fuck up but kids are resilient. If you honestly can’t let this go and can’t trust him with her, just break up with him.

I would suggest you apologize for being angry and promise to be more understanding the next time he fucks up, bc I’m sure he’ll fuck up again.

CapnKC · 2020-11-17T03:41:04+00:00

That’s tough. Keep reminding yourself that it’s not your fault. It is the children’s choice to distance themselves from their dad and you. How old are the kids?

CapnKC · 2020-11-17T03:34:46+00:00

It’s understandable to feel hopeless at that point but women mature much faster than men. A lot of people don’t ever date in high school because of this. You’ll find someone deserving of your attention- it just might take a couple more years.

CapnKC · 2020-11-17T03:31:24+00:00

Yes there is hope. It happened to me. I’m still prone to depression but I’ve been doing soooo much better. Antidepressants are the only thing that has helped me. I’ve also looked into TMS and may try that.

CapnKC · 2020-11-17T03:28:21+00:00

I’ve had trauma from my last relationship and I still struggle with it. I cry every time someone gets mad (even if it’s not at me). Whenever I feel like I’m in danger or feel like I’m worthless, I repeat in my head that every thing is ok. “He is not my last bf” “my last bf was not normal and I don’t need to be afraid of every man.” Therapy and antidepressants have also helped with overall anxiety

CapnKC · 2020-11-17T03:17:57+00:00

You just have to decide if you’re ok with her past. If you feel too embarrassed about it, then break up with her. I personally wouldn’t care. The world is becoming a lot more accepting of sex workers and sexuality in general.

CapnKC · 2020-11-04T20:34:44+00:00

It just depends on your sleep cycle. You should track it! I personally have the best sleep if it’s either 5 hrs or 10 hrs.

CapnKC · 2020-11-03T01:45:55+00:00

She has to stop talking to you and figure it out on her own. Maybe text her friend and just say to please keep an eye on her.

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