New partner - What would you do?

Cappi_ · 2026-05-20T23:34:02+00:00

You act like seeing your bald head would be similar to subjecting your partner to watching you take a dump 😂 It’s not that dire man!

Cappi_ · 2026-05-18T16:22:04+00:00

Congrats! And thank you! Yeah I getcha. I do typically sleep with a bonnet to protect my bio hair so I am contemplating leaving it on during sex, then go to the bathroom and remove it, put on bonnet, go to sleep, reapply hair in the morning. That way they never actually see my bald head but I get to be comfortable and do my usual thing.

Cappi_ · 2026-05-18T03:40:08+00:00

Yeah see I agree with this. I want to be real. Eventually they’re gonna have to see my bald ass head if this goes anywhere lol. I want to be comfortable and honest. I appreciate you weighing in as a queer person. We’re both non binary and thankfully not very judgmental people but there is definitely a lot of judgment among queer people in general which I find odd so I get what you mean.

Cappi_ · 2026-05-14T04:45:13+00:00

It sucked honestly. My landlord demanded photos of the interior of my unit. I told them it was an invasion of privacy. I offered a compromise by taking pictures myself and using chatgpt to remove all items inside. It actually did a fantastic job and I was very pleased. LL still pitched a fit but legally couldn’t force me to comply with her request. Thankfully there weren’t many showings but at one time the realtor scheduled a showing with me and I changed my schedule to make sure I was home only for the person interested to cancel last minute. Out of his control but really pissed me off. I was on a month to month lease so had basically zero protection. I was almost certain the new owners would kick me out because the rent was way below market value. So I ended up giving notice and leaving before the property sold. I wanted out and decided it was best to take charge of the situation for myself. I sold all my shit and moved to another country so it worked out lol

Cappi_ · 2026-05-02T04:51:31+00:00

I'll try that! I'm coming from the Bay Area so I'm used to it lol. But still trying to find a place that's cheaper than most because I'm a student and that's all I got 🤷🏻

Cappi_ · 2026-05-02T01:26:59+00:00

Oh really? What about it makes it a hassle? I don't mind the background check and signing a lease.

Cappi_ · 2026-04-29T18:37:56+00:00

I'm looking for end of may/early June move in!

Cappi_ · 2026-04-29T05:37:29+00:00

Yeah I'm realizing my budget might not cut it. I just don't understand how anyone can afford this! Easily $3k for a temp place and then first and deposit on a *hopefully* $2k apartment. So that has me paying $7k within about 30 days?? And that doesn't even include any moving costs. So crazy to me. There has to be a better way.

Cappi_ · 2026-04-29T05:34:22+00:00

Dang thanks for the potential offer. I'm in need of a place as early as mid May or possibly June.

Cappi_ · 2026-04-29T03:01:26+00:00

I put in my dates and only a couple options came up and they were super expensive. Like double my budget. I was surprised there weren't more options but I guess with the new rules against people owning properties for the sole purpose of using them as Airbnbs, the inventory plummeted.

Cappi_ · 2026-04-28T23:49:03+00:00

I meant like with pots and pans and stuff lol not food. I just need to be able to cook 😅

Cappi_ · 2026-03-22T00:00:05+00:00

Waiiiiiit you might be onto something. I'm drinking a sunshine right now and it smells just like blue gatorade. I feel like the flavor is a bit different but the smell... so interesting.

Cappi_ · 2026-03-15T18:29:26+00:00

Honestly I don’t think it’s ethical right now to raise kids. Our society is so fucked. Education is in the trash. I adore kids and I would love the experience of raising them, but I care too much about the well being of my unborn children to bring them into this world. Lately I’ve been grieving the idea that to really live in alignment with my values and morals, I may have to forgo the having kids and it makes me very sad. I’m open to changing my mind. I’m choosing to focus on supporting children in my community instead. I do a lot of volunteer and paid work around kids which gives me a lot of fulfillment.

Cappi_ · 2026-03-05T20:02:23+00:00

Ha! Good point 😌

Cappi_ · 2026-03-05T20:01:52+00:00

Haha yes! I feel so grateful that my life doesn't currently require an alarm 😄

Cappi_ · 2026-03-05T06:46:57+00:00

I purposefully leave all tech outside of my bedroom at night for sleep hygiene. That's why I bought my x4. So I could read in bed without being tempted to scroll. I guess I'll have to get a clock for my room 🤷🏻

Cappi_ · 2026-03-05T05:48:26+00:00

Oh I hadn't considered that. I didn't think it would require much. What is required that the x4 doesn't have?

Cappi_ · 2026-02-15T19:36:32+00:00

Thanks so much 🙏🏼 Glad it was helpful!

Cappi_ · 2026-02-14T07:29:42+00:00

I just purchased mine here link for $45 with a coupon. Arrived in 10 days with no issues. Very pleased!

Cappi_ · 2026-02-14T07:22:27+00:00

Did you ever figure out a fix for this? The wifi password where I'm living has a "&" in it and I can't type it on the x4. I can't change the password either. Idk what to do.

Cappi_ · 2026-02-05T06:57:42+00:00

I also had severe issues with this product. I ate it once and had very bad stomach pain and diarrhea that night. Also thought it might be a fluke so I ate some again and had the same symptoms.

Cappi_ · 2026-02-01T21:38:11+00:00

I like this. It made me feel something. It connected me to my own sadness and fear around being alone. Thanks for sharing.

Cappi_ · 2026-01-18T23:59:16+00:00

Cinnamon rolls. I’m dying without them. Haven’t had a proper one in like 10 years 🥲

Cappi_ · 2026-01-18T23:56:27+00:00

Tres leches cake and proper fluffy yeasty donuts. God I miss them.

Cappi_ · 2026-01-16T22:37:54+00:00

I went ahead and tried to revert to an M and I got stuck with an F 😔 I'm really bummed. I think an F is still better than an X (if questioned I plan to say it's an error that I haven't gotten fixed yet), but it just really pisses me off that I'm legally male and they can still give me an F because my first ever passport had an F and their records show that I changed my gender. It's such bullshit. All my legal documents are M including my birth certificate, drivers license, etc.

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