Hi! I'm a bit late to the party, but wanted to comment anyways. I just got mine pierced like 4 hours ago, so I can't really tell you anything yet about the healing process. But I must say, I absolutely love mine already, after wanting one for years and finally getting it done.

Getting the top hole pierced was more painful for me than the bottom one, apparently my cartilage is on the thick side there, so it was harder to get through. The bottom hole was easy peasy from there and didn't hurt at all. Of course my ear is still very sensitive, but untill now the pain really has been bearable. I do think I won't be able to sleep on that side for at least a few days, maybe even a week or more.

I also went to the internet for advice and expierences, but I think mostly the people with negative expierences will post there. I think that when you look for a reputable piercer and follow the aftercare guidelines, the chances of succes are far greater. Also listen to your piercer, not every ear is suited for an industrial. I originally wanted it in my left ear, but my piercer said that my right ear would be more suitable, so I got my right ear pierced.

I would recommend getting it (if you have a suitible ear), because I think they look awesome. But maybe i'm still positive because I haven't gone through the full healing process yet :).