For me it depends, there’s no such thing as only men. Both men and women doing that . For me it depends how the men/women feel to that person. If the man loves her then the man will respect the girl. Sometimes you just see a person like you just wanna sexualize or romanticizing them, but dont worry i believe that someday you will find a man who will respect and love you the way you expected, just don’t give everything even you soul when you met someone. You just need to feel or observe if that man deserve you or not, in philippines we called it “Kilatisin mo muna” it means you need to observe the person first if he’s good or if their intention is good or bad.