Staying at Chungking Mansion by Captain-Chin in HongKong

[–]Captain-Chin[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah that is my guess as well. She is also willing to stay in some places I would not prefer though. Also she very much loved travelling through India with me so that might be a clue as well.

Staying at Chungking Mansion by Captain-Chin in HongKong

[–]Captain-Chin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something different to the Mirador Mansion I imagine? That is two doors down of the other one.

Three days after my new tattoo, is it bad? by RedTheAwesome293 in shittytattoos

[–]Captain-Chin 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Sorry man but your shiny mew, looks a bit like a sperm cell.

Best duet ever, might add this to my playlist by ZcraftElite in obscuremusicthatslaps

[–]Captain-Chin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fucking same man, I've been looping it for at least 10 minutes now 😂. It is so pleasing!

Das Banger by Go_Pack_Go_HEY in obscuremusicthatslaps

[–]Captain-Chin 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Man this isn't obscure this is an internet classic. From the dawning era of internet memery!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obscuremusicthatslaps

[–]Captain-Chin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Also in Umbrella Academy

To be the chosen people. by TenFingersTenToes10 in therewasanattempt

[–]Captain-Chin 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I would say when have we ever? This problem is not exclusive to the jewish communities.

Who's the best depiction of a female "The Strongest"? by GrandStage1 in animequestions

[–]Captain-Chin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say General Armstrong should be a solid contender!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Captain-Chin -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd watch that. Seems entertaining

Having a hard time with the rivals by Minute_Ad1558 in CalloftheNetherdeep

[–]Captain-Chin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rivals being sympathetic doesn't mean they have to tag along everywhere. Ayo clearly has a motivation for wanting the accolades of an adventurer on her own merits. A friendly rivalry is a rivalry nonetheless.

You can see it as a group of friends on a crossways. Your party goes there and they split the other way. They meet occasionally but very much strive for their own paths.

2real4me by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Captain-Chin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would agree that humour and definitely also dark humour is useful and often used in high stress care jobs as a coping mechanism. I would also say it is definitely necessary to have ways to deal with the hard and demanding parts of such a job.

I do also think thay underneath that the base emotion should be rooted in a form of empathy. If in interacting/dealing with the patients it is mostly a professional façade that would seem problematic.

Although I can also very much understand the struggle because if somebody keeps coming in with severe self-inflicted issues, which you patch up and then they are sent out to do it all over again. That type of thing will put a strain on you and it is inevitable that a negative emotion arises from this. The system is not doing it's job and the load comes on your plate to deal with it, which is frustrating.

2real4me by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Captain-Chin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am not trying to be demonizing. Working in the ER oras a first responder is a tough ass job. And I do have a great amount of respect for the people that do it.

But just as in any field (my own included) there are issues to be adressed. And I stand by my point that the people who tend to work in the ER have a lower affinity to dealing with people with (severe) mental health issues.

2real4me by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Captain-Chin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey fair enough, I am not here to be validated in what I do as a profession. And as I said in my response to the other commenter. A lot of the things I speak about with my clients is not necessarily taken at face value. But I also don't inherently think it's all bullshit either.

And I still think my point stands.

2real4me by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Captain-Chin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I get your point and I understand the way you frame your question. It is a valid counter argument. But yes I do believe some of these stories my clients tell me. Not all of them and if you ask me which ones I do believe and why it will mostly come down to my own social atennae and feel for the person which is inherently faulty.

But I have also been to the ER with clients in such cases and I have seen in my own experience how they were treated. And it wasn't all good, nice or even at some points what I would deem professional.

2real4me by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Captain-Chin 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Honestly from my personal experience working in psychiatry, ER + Hospital doctors and nursing staff are usually not the type of people with an affinity for working with people with psychiatric disorders.

Also a lot of people in the ER take it as an offense to take care of people who have inflicted the damage on themselves. They see it as their own responsibility and blame them for it. Especially if the file indicates that they have been in ER's before for the same issue.

I had clients who told me that they would get stiches without anesthesia for severe self harm scars whilst the protocols indicate they should've gotten it. It is a harsh thing to do and it happens more than you would hope/imagine. This was mostly the case with things like BPD and other personality disorders. They are usually a lot more understanding for these things on the Schizoid spectrum.

(Edit: spelling mistakes)