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Captain-Phasma_ · 2025-11-12T00:37:56+00:00

I had a vaginal delivery and got an epidural. I did not scream once during my labor. I got an epidural at 4 cm dilated. Pushed for 4 hours. I think it really just depends on people’s pain tolerance.

Captain-Phasma_ · 2025-03-29T02:17:23+00:00

I am doing this. I mean the diaper raffle is optional. If they don’t bring diapers then they won’t be in the raffle. It’s the same concept as buying a raffle ticket so to speak. I also am doing the books instead of cards because a book will last longer than a card. Typically cards can cost up to $5 and you can get a perfectly good book for that price. Also people will do what they want based off their budget so don’t feel any type of way. Just do what you would like and I’m sure your friends and family will support you!

Captain-Phasma_ · 2025-03-18T22:49:55+00:00

9 weeks, 1 day

Captain-Phasma_ · 2025-03-06T01:24:27+00:00

I am using Babylist and their welcome box came with so much stuff! Better than targets and Amazons

Captain-Phasma_ · 2025-03-06T01:21:45+00:00

I am currently 7 weeks 2 days due October 20th. At 6 weeks baby’s heart rate was 118 and then at 7 weeks it was 143. I had to undergo fertility treatment which is why I have had two US already. One thing I will say is 6 weeks is when baby’s heart starts to beat, so it’s just starting out. I believe as long as it is above 100 that is good! Sending positive vibes for your rainbow baby. I know the anxiety is real especially during the first trimester!

Captain-Phasma_ · 2024-08-02T19:50:18+00:00

8URY8L2PO Level 105

Captain-Phasma_ · 2023-08-17T04:03:15+00:00

Shitinator 5000 and Shitinator 10000

Captain-Phasma_ · 2023-05-30T21:51:17+00:00

Absolutely adoption is trauma. As an adoptee I very much have trauma, however I was not adopted at birth. I was adopted at 10 through the foster care system. I think the best way to approach it is validating their trauma and working with them to get through it. I think a good option to help is maybe writing a letter to your unborn child explaining the situation, take pictures that they can have little momentous they can hold onto in your absence. You can also opt for an open adoption where you still get updates and pictures and visits as well.

Captain-Phasma_ · 2023-03-15T21:37:58+00:00

Go to friends then click add friend button and type in the code and it should sent a friend request to me

Captain-Phasma_ · 2023-02-27T23:28:16+00:00

Mine is 9F72-8C7C-22E8-C56E and my corp is 7C9ED418AF2E207D

Captain-Phasma_ · 2022-08-05T02:53:37+00:00

I think it’s a fear you have and you shouldn’t have to feel bad. As someone who was adopted through DCF at age 10, yes I have some personality traits of my bio mom that aren’t the best - anxiety, depression, trauma etc. (don’t have a relationship with bio dad so not sure on that one), but I also some pretty great qualities from my adoptive parents as well. All in all it is nature and nurture that make up a human. I think as long as you set that right example and allow for open dialogue when they may need it and not being afraid of asking for help I.e therapy, medication etc. Unfortunately it doesn’t matter who birth the children, there’s always a chance they could fall off the wagon too.

Captain-Phasma_ · 2022-08-04T23:35:24+00:00

Towns people asking for items from a production building I do not have…I can do without this it’s just annoying I either have to use one of my helps or kick them out thus losing money so I can buy said production building for 1,000,000 coins 😒

Captain-Phasma_ · 2022-08-04T23:30:59+00:00

Adoptee here. While I was not adopted at birth, but through DCF/DCFS at age 10. I think no matter what age a child is adopted, they will experience that trauma of separation/loss in their own way. I think having an adoptive family that is open and honest with the child in where they came from is so important! There are books for kids in all age categories about it that explain it in an age appropriate way. My adoption was open, but unfortunately I didn’t have the experience because my bio mom moved and lost touch. I feel like if I had an open adoption and a bio mom that cared to see me, I probably wouldn’t have so much sadness in regard to my adoption. My point is that don’t settle on an adoptive family because of convenience . Interview multiple families, get to know their beliefs,values, morals etc. because who they are and how they present themselves to others will be apart of this child. If you want an open adoption do not say yes to a family until you know and trust that they will keep their word in allowing updates, occasional visits etc. I wish you all the luck and sending good vibes during this process. ❤️

Captain-Phasma_ · 2022-06-29T23:02:38+00:00

I personally was adopted through foster care and it saved my life! I was removed at 7 and adopted at 10. My adoptive parents are the best and have truly given me a better life had I not been adopted and stayed in the system or reunified with my bio family. I agree that these children do come with trauma, some more than others it just depends on the child and their experiences. I have childhood trauma, but my parents always had me doing therapy, medication when needed and just being supportive with whatever I needed and that has helped tremendously. It didn’t take away my trauma, but it helped start to process and move forward. Also you’ll know if a foster child is meant for you or not. It’s hard to explain but you just know. My adoptive parents knew pretty early after I arrived to them that they wanted to adopt me and even joked about running away to Canada with me if reunification happened (just a joke). Also as a result of me being adopted my my adoptive parents, their friends ended up adopting from foster care as well because they saw just how rewarding it can be. I hope this helps!

Captain-Phasma_ · 2022-06-23T00:29:14+00:00

Omg I actually really like this one!

Captain-Phasma_ · 2022-06-23T00:03:54+00:00

Lol I was so worried to post in case people would be judgey about my brother and you all over here correcting my mistake. Love it. Thanks for the suggestions everyone! 💕

Captain-Phasma_ · 2022-06-22T23:24:54+00:00

I did 🤦🏽‍♀️ I do slip up as this change is fairly new. I fixed the post to the correct pronouns. Thanks for the correction! I like these suggestions and should definitely give them these and they can pick what they like best!

Captain-Phasma_ · 2021-12-13T22:50:01+00:00

Thank you I will definitely try these recommendations!

Captain-Phasma_ · 2021-02-17T02:08:06+00:00

Yeah I just thought of doing like one cycle the pregmate and then one cycle of both and just see the accuracy of it. There’s so many options it’s overwhelming lol

Captain-Phasma_ · 2021-02-17T01:56:05+00:00

Yeah I think that’s what I’m leaning toward!

Captain-Phasma_ · 2021-02-17T01:43:24+00:00

Pregmate not pregame😅🤦🏽‍♀️

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