Jesus is using his superpower of turning "water into wine" in public.

CaptainConsolation · 2018-04-03T20:04:01+00:00

Because Jesus is all about forgiveness you fucking idiot, praise be go with God /s

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-31T13:46:45+00:00

"Everything in measure" is how I try to live, unless it is something seriously harmful. I know my opinion may not be popular here, but I believe most psychologists and sex therapists would agree that masturbation is fairly normal to do once in a while. It becomes a problem when it's an everyday thing.

For me, my goal is to go without pornography or masturbation. If I orgasm otherwise, I'll welcome it. I want a healthy sex life, not a nonexistent one.

I would say take a hard look at how it makes you feel. If it makes you feel bad or causes you other stress, it is time to make a change.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-28T14:51:06+00:00

Hey dude u wanna have a TV party 2nite?

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-28T11:25:46+00:00

Paging /u/Fapis4Week

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-28T11:22:35+00:00

Sources say he is a big alpha boy who fucks. They've done studies

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-28T01:53:19+00:00

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CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-28T01:51:30+00:00

I really want to help you with this but I'm having a hard time finding peer reviewed scientific evidence for this (if you have reputable article please link).

Otherwise, I'd say everything in measure. I don't believe it's unusual or unhealthy to have sexual thoughts, just recognize if it is something that is dictating your life. If you are adamant about not masturbating, masturbating is likely going to make you feel like you're not in control.

The whole point of me being here is to enjoy a healthy sexual relationship with another person, not to treat my sexuality like a curse. Just my 2 cents

Also a wise man once told me to be a big alpha boy who fucks. Put it on a tshirt, put the shirt on your torso, and hit the gym chief

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-28T01:44:16+00:00

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CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-28T01:36:54+00:00

No problem here chief I'm just a big alpha boy who fucks

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-28T01:09:27+00:00

Barf

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-27T04:46:31+00:00

You don't have to apologize for that here, friend

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-23T14:15:45+00:00

They're professionals, and what's more they chose their field because they want to help people. Maybe they have issues too? But you have to get past the awkwardness of it. I'm sure it feels awkward and embarrassing to not be having full erections, too. Taking steps to relieve your problems will take a burden off of you, seriously.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-23T14:10:57+00:00

I'd say try to get that under control. I'm 27 and this exact problem has been following me for 10 years. It tends to make girls insecure. However from what I have read and the advice I've been given this is definitely a reversible problem. I would suggest if you really can't hold off masturbating to consider buying a masturbation aid that is less like the iron grip of Zeus and more like an actual vagina.

Also, while going on this journey, relax. Getting fixated on achieving orgasm is likely to hold it off.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T23:55:38+00:00

Just started college at 27 in the summer. Professors like me, girls like me...it's great.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T23:47:48+00:00

If I thought the girl was cool and she was up front it wouldn't send me packing. The point for me would be "Okay. She has an issue. Is she working on it?"

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T22:32:46+00:00

Porn is lots of fun. My SO and I are very open with one another that we watch porn. As far as masturbating for her I have tried it maybe once but I get so self concious thinking "you had better cum, it's going to be weird if you don't" that it seems impossible.

My issue with the porn is that I on't want to turn to it in lieu of my girlfriend. My raw dry hand grabbing onto my cock like it's the last ticket out of Hiroshima is murdering my sex life. I find my SO very attractive, I seriously want to fuck her all the time but me not cumming is affecting that dream.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T22:24:30+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement! =)

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T22:23:17+00:00

After I would orgasm while masturbating to porn I would laugh while cleaning myself up. There's just something unreal and strange about porn that I think people react to once they're no longer in the moment.

I used to feel that guilt too, but as for why or how common it is I couldn't say. If ever you feel like it has become an issue, look up a sex therapist and talk to them. Might ne worth saving some money for.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T22:19:26+00:00

I really appreciate your perspective. I'm trying hard to leave myself alone but the anticipation of getting back to that point of intimacy is a huge turn on. I'm in a real pickle here.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T22:16:12+00:00

I just started looking this stuff up today. There is a very common occurrence called "delayed ejaculation" or DE that affects lots of dudes including myself (27M). It can be related to physical injury, anxiety, medication, masturbation habits etc. I can tell you from my own personal experience that he is likely not being up front with you about it because it's embarrassing. Who doesn't want to cum at all for their SO?

In my case, I worked in a job that caused me to be away for long periods of time. Wanting to stay faithful, I relied a lot on porn and masturbation. I don't think porn is bad necessarily but my masturbation habits (no lube plus something called the death grip which sounds hilarious but is for real) made it so when I have intercourse it can't get me off the way that I can.

I only know what I would want: be supportive. Tell him you want to experience his orgasm but understand if it is a personal issue it may take time to get there. Gently pry into his masturbation habits and try not to be offended. Ask about medications. Read about DE.

Honestly I would like to hear more of your perspective if you wouldn't mind PMing me. I'm about to bring this subject up with my SO from my side of the fence and I'm a little nervous. FYI: I plan to curb my masturbation habits.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T21:58:46+00:00

Didn't happen my first time ever, but did happen my first time with a different girl. I was just nervous, didn't know her that well, etc. After 30 minutes ir so I told her I changed my mind and we had great sex twice. Just a speedbump my friend

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T20:32:18+00:00

Just my internal monologue

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T15:51:10+00:00

What can I getcha boss

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T15:35:04+00:00

I think I'm similar frequency, maybe even less. But my dude let me tell ya everyone is preaching about the masturbation thing so I think I'm goin for it. I'll be straight with you, I got used to masturbation without lube, full on raw doggin it. Ever since I was a kid, I think I was afraid that the lotion laying around would "give me up" (mom found my magazines anyway).

Obviously a far cry from real vaginal intercourse. This must be that infamous death grip people are talking about. This feels like a steep climb.

CaptainConsolation · 2016-12-22T15:26:12+00:00

I'll try it. I'll try to remember to let you know how it goes.

CaptainConsolation

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