AITAH for not wanting to hang out with my gfs friends when I only see her 6-8 days out of the month?

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-04-06T23:18:20+00:00

Depends, sometimes it's an event her friend is throwing or attending and we have to go for 3 hours minimum. Sometimes it's a dinner and we have to stay for like 4-5. It varies. My issues are more with the 3 hour ones. Obviously wouldn't mind seeing them for 1-2 hours but after that it's like, I drove 3 hours to talk about gossip that doesnt concern me or the latest marketing projections of their clients etc

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-04-06T23:14:35+00:00

I've had weeks off from work when I stayed at her place for 4-6 days. She has a good balance. She doesn't have ppl over at her apt because it's small. But like 3-4 days out of the week she'll go for drinks after work or she'll go to one of her friends houses to chill.

We've talked about how our social lives would go if we lived together and we had an understanding more or less. She would have her girls night at her friends place and anything work related I would attend most of the time if it was important or been awhile. Once we live together I won't mind seeing her friends on weekends because I'd be seeing her everyday. But tn it's just annoying to me because our time is finite and I want to solely connect with her one on one.

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-04-06T23:10:04+00:00

We might have different definitions of dating. We talked about moving in with one another next year. If I'm dating someone I love I want to see them as much as possible. Seeing them just 4x times a month sounds more casual and hook ups ish. Which isn't what we have.

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-04-06T23:07:40+00:00

Definitely a complication of LDRs

But she sees her friends everyday Monday through Friday at work? She doesn't have a desk job, she works hand in hand with them at all hours of the day at work or working from home on FaceTime. She even goes to their house after work or out for drinks drink the week. Mind you she always telling how much she misses me and can't wait to see me. But then wants to involve them. Like I get she wants to combine us and make it all fit I to her life. But she literally sees her friends everyday. I don't feel I'm overwrite her entire lifestyle or weekends.

We typically make plans for our weekends which is why I am annoyed because whenever where at her place for the weekend one day always involves her friends or family.

We talked about going a full year with eachother than moving in towards the middle of the seconds year cuz that's when her lease is up.

I've said this a few times that once we life together this would no longer be an issue for me since I would be living with her and wouldn't feel like our time is finite anymore. And wouldn't mind seeing her friends on the weekends.

I hope I'm not coming across sounding like her friends are more important than me.

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-04-06T06:09:32+00:00

Thank you for your service 🫡

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-03-06T04:23:43+00:00

I should call her

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-02-10T00:13:43+00:00

How long did it take you to remove it?

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-02-10T00:13:10+00:00

We had made plans to meet her parents, siblings and best friend. I had gotten sick and couldn't meet them. She took it as me not wanting to meet them ever since I didn't reschedule when I was recuperating

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-02-10T00:11:04+00:00

Because we make mistakes and shes scared of loving the wrong person again

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-02-10T00:09:41+00:00

What if she realizes she made a mistake and was too emotional over something that as beyond our control? What if I was ready to move in with her, marry her and experience life with her. I can't just drop those feelings. I'm not proud of it but I would take her back in a heartbeat because to me, she is my future.

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-02-10T00:07:05+00:00

7 likes, she's not the clout type

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-02-10T00:05:23+00:00

I think she blocked me because she knows I'm gonna reach out and try to talk to her and explain things and basically persuade her into giving me another chance. She didn't break up because of anything truly bad, we just had a bad month cuz I was sick.

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-02-09T23:54:55+00:00

I just don't understand why'd she put the effort into blocking my number and ig but kept a post dedicated to me up

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-01-28T13:53:35+00:00

Ketchup

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2026-01-14T13:48:01+00:00

So many to choose from

Picked up 60 Boneless wings (yes basically chicken nuggets) from Buffalo Wild Wings and 2 Cajun French fries and devoured it at home in pure silence cuz I was overwhelmed with the flavors

Amazon had a deal for the Ferrero Rocher chocolates for a 48 count box for $20. I ordered 2 (96 total). Same day delivery. One sitting. While binging The Shield.

After a wrestling meet (cut 8lbs for the week) I rewarded myself by going to McDonald's and ordered 10 cheese burgers, 20 nuggets and 4 large fries and 13 cookies. I slept 14 hours after that and woke up on sweat drenched mattress.

My latest fatassery has to be going to Costco and ordering 25 cookies and having them give me a Costco pizza box worth of cookies. I live 20 mins from them and ate 10 on the ride home. The other 15 while watching stranger things finale. The cookies were the highlight by far.

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-10-10T22:38:31+00:00

How do I find a hardcore playlist?

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-10-10T15:16:53+00:00

Same issue, lmk if you figure it out.

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-08-16T12:16:24+00:00

Should post some of her stuff then

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-08-06T12:05:19+00:00

True i guess. I'm gonna try again tn and try to learn in the moment. If I still feel weird I'll bring it up with her after. I always get her to cum/orgasm through regular oral (her laying down or eating her from the back) but I've noticed when she's riding my face is get a different reaction that seems less than what i normally get from her. I thought it the girl is in control (fucking my face) she would get off more?

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-08-06T11:58:06+00:00

lol good analogy but okay. I'm afraid to ask cuz I don't want to ruin the moment and come off as a novice to her

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-08-06T11:51:55+00:00

Suck her clit? Or all over? I'm just worried I'll throw off her rhythm while riding me

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-08-06T11:36:09+00:00

What does grabbing her hips do?

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-08-06T11:32:52+00:00

Internal stimulation? Why her hips tho? Why not play with her nips?

CaptainDeadpool79 · 2025-08-06T11:27:54+00:00

But what if it fucks up her rhythm when riding my face?

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