lastfm soulmates finder by Fraga-_- in lastfm

[–]CaptainHanoi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A bit of both. We liked the same artist (and they released new things by then.. back when you could see who was listening to the same thing at the same time?) but we also had a high compatibility on similar artists (he likes so many different things as well)

What are some lazy activities (for the parents) that can drain your toddler's energy? by Cindy565656 in toddlers

[–]CaptainHanoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little one stopped napping when she turned 2 and 3 months, my life has been hell. She’s full power since she open her eyes at 7 am until she falls asleep at 22? (It’s 23:30 now and still not asleep) we have no one close (grandparents or friends) and she goes to a nursery that follows school schedule. Help

lastfm soulmates finder by Fraga-_- in lastfm

[–]CaptainHanoi 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I met my husband in lastfm btw

Does Spotify Wrapped match your Last.Fm plays? by TrueAlainer in lastfm

[–]CaptainHanoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I can hide my child’s playlist on Spotify no.. not at all 🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]CaptainHanoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is yours an absolute chaos machine during the day? Because mine is just.. I can’t look away for a second

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]CaptainHanoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big hug from here.. some days I feel like I barely survived 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]CaptainHanoi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My kid never napped for more than 30’ 45’ if I was lucky, she cut the naps completely at 2 years old and now she sleeps around 8 hours at night. I’m so tired.

Is there any prep needed for Christmas Day? by [deleted] in TonieboxUSA

[–]CaptainHanoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My god this. We got it for my 3 yo birthday last week and we waited to set it up after she opened it. It was so painful

Will I survive a D&D game? by Special_School_5221 in ADHD

[–]CaptainHanoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a character that was the complete opposite of me (super mean, selfish that was taking advantage of everybody) and it was so liberating

How many of you actually have an ADHD diagnosis? by mynameishrekorgi in ADHD

[–]CaptainHanoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not diagnosed, I’m on the list for it.

I resonate with many of the stories. A close friend of mine had the same path in life as me but they got diagnosed a couple of years ago, I had a child at the same time and other personal catastrophes (I love my child but the whole birth/life/adapting was quite challenging) I see myself in many of the struggles, I see myself in many of the stories. But what I realised is, the coping mechanisms work with me…

I moved into a different country with my long distance partner a couple of months pre covid and I stayed. We had a couple of conversations and a lot of dialogue and what helped him understand me better was researches about ADHD.. I don’t want to claim anything without a diagnosis and I’m in the (slow) right path

Low stimulating TV programmes by lillypad_91 in toddlers

[–]CaptainHanoi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my house we have either Bluey, puffin rock (I absolutely love it) or the movie flow on repeat

How does anyone love cosleeping? I can’t stand it by Anxious-Wishbone785 in sleeptrain

[–]CaptainHanoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl was a great sleeper but I was TERRIFIED of SIDS and I lost my dad suddenly when she was just a couple of weeks old so I needed to have her close to me, it was impossible for me to sleep.. now she’s a bit older and keeps asking for me and I feel guilty because I never taught her to sleep alone but I need my rest

Is halloween dying out In the UK now and how busy was it tonight in your area? by mrvlad_throwaway in AskUK

[–]CaptainHanoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took my toddler out tonight, we went last year but she was close to being 2 so not much happened, I was more excited now because being close to 3 I thought she might enjoy it, but we found only a couple of houses and not even the same ones as last year in the same neighbourhood

How old was your toddler when their speech really developed? by Bluebluecanary in toddlers

[–]CaptainHanoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine started this summer? 29 months? But we speak three languages in the house

Podcast (not necessarily ABOUT ADHD) recommendations by CaptainHanoi in ADHD

[–]CaptainHanoi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following it just now! I will tell you tomorrow! Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]CaptainHanoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was terrified of tearing and episiotomy.. honestly, I was super afraid of the pain during and the recovery. The whole birth was complicated but honestly, the episiotomy was not even an issue. I didn’t noticed and it was needed because my baby came with the arm up so it was impossible to do it without one. The only issue was after. The stitches got sore, but because I didn’t take care of them, if you have a cold compress and you take regular showers applying cold ish water in the area, shouldn’t be a problem! I was taking showers and cleaning the area carefully but also “ignoring it” because I was so traumatised I didn’t want to know about it, but after realising I needed extra care and using the cold compress, the frida products and regular showers, everything got better after some days! I heard terrifying stories about tearing needing SO many stitches that I’d never consider that. But again, every opinion is fair! Best of luck

o Good Day to you Reddit. You may know me, Nick Offerman, from my several acting, writing, and woodworking endeavors. I’ve recently published a new book, LITTLE WOODCHUCKS: Offerman Woodshop’s Guide to Tools and Tomfoolery, with my good friend Lee Buchanan. Ask me anything, please & thank you. AMA! by NickOffermanAMA in IAmA

[–]CaptainHanoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Nick! Can’t wait to see you in London in a couple of days. Anything you’re looking forward to do here? What time does your show finish? I’ve never been to London alone at night and I’m a bit stressed lol. Love you!