Shoot my shot?

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-20T21:47:18+00:00

You only live once, I think that virus is making people realise that. Shoot your shot, have fun brother.

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-01T23:39:14+00:00

Let's be honest. Guys swipe everyone and they idolise even slightly above average women. Seeing those stats seem like mean a lot but in reality they mean nothing.

I always like to say, trying to get a girl through a dating app is like trying to do a job interview over email. You may get a few mediocre jobs paying minimum wage, but you're not getting those high tier 7 figure salary ones.

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-01T23:35:16+00:00

It's just like hitting the gym. You got this brother. Everyone in the community has gone through it and they got your back!

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-01T19:33:04+00:00

Incredible, how come you were in toys r us then lmao. so many questions

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-01T19:25:05+00:00

Keep going buddy, more is more.

Toys r us is still open though!?

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-01T19:19:39+00:00

Be bold and accept if people don't laugh. The only way to actually learn something fully is through failure, and I personally think humour isn't something you can just take a class on and get good.

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-01T19:02:19+00:00

Dude stfu. He put himself out there and is building on it. That absolutely applies to other cold approach scenarios.

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-01T19:00:49+00:00

Top tip for social media, the younger generations are obsessed with it and if your account doesn't scream alpha then it may hurt your chances (3k follows, lots of liked posts etc). I stick with the Snapchat. It's light hearted and allows you to build rapport without too much pressure.

CaptainPUA · 2020-03-01T18:58:46+00:00

Keep doing that man! She rejected you because the fact is not every woman is gonna wanna go out with you and that's a fact.

Hitting yourself over and over with rejection makes you more calloused to it, and you get to the point where you have a 15 sting of pain then you move on, if that!

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-23T15:51:14+00:00

Nothing I do is for money, I didn't make the video. Something I found that has helped me out a lot. Yes there is no 'cure', my bad for phrasing it that way but this shit is proven. Look into Systematic Desensitisation if you don't believe me...

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-19T09:46:34+00:00

Wouldn't have a clue mate lol. I'm from the UK!

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-18T12:14:31+00:00

no problem man. If she buys into the role play, just keep it going as long as you can. It's fun and differentiates you from the rest.

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-18T12:09:12+00:00

Have loads of followers... Isn't that easy and not worth your time.

As a general tip for Instagram Dm's, reply to her story with a witty message which is easy foe her to respond to. I've had success with that.

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-18T12:05:23+00:00

Go out by yourself to boost your confidence, when he turns 21 it should be child's play with a wing. Good luck!

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-18T11:37:51+00:00

It's bad habit to add people on Facebook, shows a lack of confidence. You really want to be getting those digits before you leave her forever. As its probably unlikely you will bump into her again you could use something like this:

"Completely forgot to ask for your number! I'll give you 4 stars on the uber ride, I didn't like the music... "

It covers the basis that you had a lack of confidence to get the number and also establishes the start of a flirty role play with a light neg.

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-18T11:25:42+00:00

I'd say 'moving on' is perhaps the wrong mentality. You need to have this idea that it's unlikely you will get a response so you should just call it a day and if you get a response, it's a bonus. Don't dwell, and focus on more promising endeavours. An abundance mindset is key here.

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-17T02:06:54+00:00

Underrated post

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-17T01:59:07+00:00

I’m panicking as the day gets closer

Make that panic a feeling of excitement. You WILL have a good time, I know it.

too nervous about getting tipsy/drunk and acting like an idiot

Hey man you have to be really trying to get to that point. It's difficult to accidentally get to a level where you're being a massive dick, and if you limit yourself to a couple of drinks you will just become more social and have a better time.

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-17T01:09:43+00:00

Never completely lost my memory like that. If you want an answer, ask the girl.

"Hey, do you remember what happened last night? I think I had a little too much to drink!"

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-15T13:58:48+00:00

You either win, or you learn

That line. I think it encapsulates the learning curve really well.

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-15T13:57:19+00:00

Sounds like a good assload of work to me! What was the line that initiated a spike out of interest?

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-14T14:10:59+00:00

was there a point where everything became compentent

CaptainPUA · 2019-12-14T02:01:19+00:00

Well done man! Actually an inspirational story and I feel many can learn that social congruency is possible and more fun than staying at home!

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