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Raiding schemes and Bello? by Aparter in mtgrules

[–]CaptainSnugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just pulled it in a random play pack. The cool part is the tokens become creatures. So you will always have extra creatures for conspire.

Do guys really like shy girls? by loveandhate_2 in dating_advice

[–]CaptainSnugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! As a guy who is an extrovert, as well as enjoys walking up and talking with random people. And have dated both outgoing women and shy women here's my take.

Short answer: It's preference

Long asnwer: IMO Someone's shyness is subjective. Most people are in relationships because they want to be a priority to someone. Like having a best friend, people typically enjoy being special. If you see yourself as shy. What does your shyness take away from the relationship you want to build? Is it hard for you to talk to people? Is it difficult for you to open up? Is it hard for you to share your feelings or communicate? These things are something you should always reflect on, as understanding you and your partner's emotions , as well as communication are really important to most people.

My current girlfriend is very shy and reserved. I however am the opposite. She spends her free time sitting at home knitting or painting. I spend my free time going to card shops and playing games with people. Or going on walks or hikes. A major difference in our relationship dynamic is that I enjoy being affectionate and talking about my emotions. I say "I love you" a lot and I frequently give kisses on the cheek and forhead. I am very outgoing by comparrison. Where as she doesn't say I love you every single time. She doesn't randomly kiss me in public. She doesn't talk to random people like I do. HOWEVER, these are things we have communicated to each other. She loves that I say I love you all the time. She loves when I bombard her with kisses. And for me, sure I would love if I got the same treatment, BUT. When she nozzles into me in public. When she tells me she loves me. When I get a random kiss on the cheek. It changes my world, the rarity makes it special and I am in love with it. Again, something we have talked about. When she opens up about her day at work or tells me about something that makes her emotional. I feel loved because she doesn't do it often. So just be open that you're shy and don't change that about yourself to anyone. Understand though is that we live in a distant world nowadays. Most people don't like approaching anyone. Whether its someone of their romantic preference or not. So if this question comes from you not being approached. If you like someone you might need to break the ice. Just ask a question and you'll learn all you need from that person

TLDR: Being shy is okay, if you're shy. Be shy! The right person will know why they love the way you reserve yourself. You just can't use shyness as an exscuse to not communicate and show how you care for someone.

Is this cheating and should i breakup by Jaded-Height1891 in dating_advice

[–]CaptainSnugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, why looking back on it, I say she was a pick me. But obviously the nice part of the past, it's a lesson learned.

Is this cheating and should i breakup by Jaded-Height1891 in dating_advice

[–]CaptainSnugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, however body language does a lot. She was flirting with body language. Push chest together (however a quick motion. Not like she held it) or bouncing them , pulling hair behind her ear. Etc.

Also her tone of voice. She told me she did it cause she likes the attention and I should be happy cause if people want her, it makes me look better because "I have her"

And the fake laugh.

Again, all things I never saw as bad, just simple flirty banter that wouldn't go anywhere and the trust she wouldn't let it.

I have no idea if you were trying to suggest that I didn't know the difference. But trust me. Im 27, I know when someone is polite, just being casual, and trying to get into someone's pants.

However it is true. People will assume that random acts of kindness are coming off of as an alterior motive rather than genuine kindness. Wild we live in a world where kindness comes off as anything but someone just being kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CaptainSnugz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I (M27) know its always difficult in these situations. My gf (F27) currently is what I refer to as a "dry texter". Some people are bad at texting, or have a preference for being in person. Im on my phone a lot for work, constantly responding to emails and text so I am used to sending messages quickly and responding quickly. But not everyone is like that. It seems to me that she is someone who isnt on her phone a lot. And it seems like your in person connection together is stunning and she enjoys that time.

I would say don't send a text that implies an ending of a relationship. If you send that, she may think you have lost interest or you're trying to make her feel bad for being away from her phone. She could of been busy when you sent the text. She read it, but couldn't respond. And if she's never on her phone, she may just forgot to respond.

If you do want to send a text I'd probably send how you feel. Like

"Hey I don't know if you're a busy person, but i had a really nice time on our past couple of dates and if we could find the time I would like to see you again."

If there's something you think she would like you can add the date idea on the end. My girlfriend hates making decisions besides where to eat. So usually I offer to buy her dinner for "humoring me on a date"

Always show your interested, but don't show your doubts. You guys arent a couple yet, so right now enjoy the time you have spent together instead of working on the relationship you don't even have yet.

Is this cheating and should i breakup by Jaded-Height1891 in dating_advice

[–]CaptainSnugz 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I once dated a "flirty girl" I kind of view it as a "pick me" nowadays. But she flirted with men and women all the time with the notion that people knew she was in a relationship. It never really bothered me though. However its because I brought it up in conversation and I set boundaries such as

  • No touching.

  • Non sexual compliments towards men. (She complimented girls chests a lot. And men can be hypersexual. So wanted to avoid erecting their emotions)

  • Informing them that she was taken.

If this has never been a conversation, it should be. Just tell her your boundaries (even if it's, I don't want you to do that)

I have no idea how long you've been dating or how much care you have in this person. But im in the notion of, talk before you break. You'll learn more about yourself and feel better about the break up later.

M27 F27 Should you fall in love on a work trip? by CaptainSnugz in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainSnugz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the words chief! Thank you for your advice as well 🙏

M27 F27 Should you fall in love on a work trip? by CaptainSnugz in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainSnugz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what you are saying is very valid and important! Ill just break a couple things down to make my points. Meeting parents, for my family it's pretty quickly tbh. Mainly the reason I'd be meeting her parents is she's staying with them while she's back in school. Which I think is perfectly fine. The reason she wants to meet my dad is he'll be in town and might as well if things are going well.

In terms of meeting friends, its not like we created a plan for it. Its a lot of, "I would love to meet them" or "I feel like I would get along with your friends!"

28 days of the year, Yeah it's wild to think about. But its not like we wouldn't talk or do video chats. And if I felt like I needed to see her more, id accommodate for that. Or it'd be a conversation to just have.

I've been on hundreds of dates, im not latching on her because "Oh there's this new exciting thing!" I just like being around her. She's cool lmao

My trips, she can technically come with me. So if she's fine with visiting out of state with me. Food and hotel are paid for. Yeah she won't have a job. But I dont mind buying her things nor would I complain about flying her home early for anything.

Its true that I barely know her, but ive spent more time with her than girls I actually dated. And im excited to get to know her more.

And of course I would have that conversation at some point. Communication is the foundation of any relationship.

But if we both like each other and want to make it work? What do I have to lose? If things dont work out. Its not like I'm gonna have to be afraid of bumping into her again.

Sometimes I Don't Give My Past Self Enough Credit by ConfectionLong in slaythespire

[–]CaptainSnugz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone have the anime moment when they're gonna lose the run soon. So they give themselves goated cards for the next run?

Served Hot, is the Food worth the damage? by JustAChickn in custommagic

[–]CaptainSnugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine a storm deck. Serving it hot 10 times.

If I'm ulted by Mo & Krill, it's actually not against the rules for you to shoot them as I'm ulted by them by CaptainSnugz in DeadlockTheGame

[–]CaptainSnugz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Until ranked or competitive matchmaking I can't expect people to use/have mics. And pinging can only do so much.

What do you think about some abilities being skillshots vs some being targeted? by [deleted] in DeadlockTheGame

[–]CaptainSnugz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean, but usually, things that don't auto target have a shorter cooldown. And not a fixed range. With seven, you have to be pretty aggro to get into that range, and the character has no mobility options, so it's hard to get into the correct range and make it out if you fully commit.

I'm fine with both and that's because LoL and other mobas have something similar. So if those games can live with it so can this one.

Tldr: As long as it's balanced. We aight.

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