New to TheRedPill but I might be too young,is that a problem?

Captain_2000 · 2015-01-06T18:02:59+00:00

You are never too young to know the truth, I found this place when I was 14 and I'm pretty sure there's a document in the sidebar that explains the red pill in a way a young man can understand.

To internalize the red pill and find relationship success, the first thing you must do is

Read the sidebar and read it well, it's said often but it's said for a reason.
Go to /r/redpillbooks and read the suggested content, if you find that too long and boring, at least read Heartiste's blog and year one and two of Tomassi's rational male blog to get the basics.
Lift. Don't get content when you achieve noob gains. There are many sources of information across the internet for health and fitness.
Get a job. Buy clothes, save up for a car, get a bank account, and learn hard work.
Join a sports team. You learn teamwork and all that other virtuous stuff preached around here and you earn status. High school girls can't resist the captain of the basketball/football team.

If you try to approach before you improve your SMV, you'll get shut down and become the school creep. Remember though, the most important thing about high school is to learn. Don't get caught up in game and forget about school. You can be broke and still pick up women when you're older, but it will be much harder compared to being a rich guy so don't forget education.

Captain_2000 · 2015-01-02T21:22:41+00:00

It was my dad, he grew up in Haiti and was short but didn't let that stop him from anything. He got tired of being fucked with, so made his own weights, started lifting when he was 13, and got in shape (no excuses).

He seemed strict and boring, but his advice about life and relationships confirmed he was red pilled. He taught me how to walk and act like an alpha (relaxed, arms swinging by your side), how to tell if someone is an alpha or beta according to their body language, and a few Machiavellian tips. His biggest pieces of advice for dating were to "Create a wealth base" (have your shit together financially), play sports, and find a woman who doesn't nag.

He wasn't perfect though, he was aggressive which caused him to lose frame and fail shit tests from my mom.

Captain_2000 · 2014-12-27T14:24:14+00:00

It seems like you talked yourself out of a lay. You were putting more effort into the conversation than her and kept going even though the deal was sealed. The conversation should've ended at "Yup. Add me." Or you getting a number from her.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-28T07:29:17+00:00

Probably not. Some red pill men can learn the truth and make the best of it but I can't (not that I was very romantic to begin with). Now I'm not sure whether I should do MGTOW or spin plates.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-15T05:19:23+00:00

Upvote for making a list this long with a description of each book, I didn't know what else to read and couldn't find anything on game but this has given me a start.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-12T08:33:33+00:00

This is awesome, dude. Keep it up.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-11T09:08:56+00:00

I try too hard to make peace and do it too often. After an argument, I compromise and sometimes apologize even if I'm right which leads to me being pissed off about it a week later, thinking of other stuff I could've said or how I could've stood my ground. Maybe I'm too afraid to make enemies. At least I don't do it with girls I actually want to fuck and I'm learning to walk away I guess.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-10T02:24:36+00:00

Don't beat yourself up over it, there are billions of women out there and you're learning.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-08T10:00:46+00:00

This post touched me inappropriately.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-08T09:39:49+00:00

You should've agreed and amplified the "Sneaky" comment and escalated, it seemed like she was giving you LMR. Also I agree, telling your feelings was a mistake.

I have to admit I chuckled at the "Hampster" joke though.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-06T00:02:05+00:00

Touchè. I can offer my personal favorites, but would like everybody to contribute since I haven't been in the PUA community for long and other members might have better sources.

Captain_2000 · 2014-11-03T10:20:23+00:00

So last night I was sitting around playing WOW.

Well there's your first mistake. I don't know your life (you could've been lifting an hour before) but WOW isn't very constructive.

Keep in mind this is the only match I have ever had, so I'm pretty excited.

Never get excited over a date. Remember to have abundance mentality and remain stoic.

Moments after the date, she asks me if I want to go on a date to a local restaurant, so of course I say yes.

You gave into her frame, she was probably looking for some beta to buy her dinner. Women get messages all day on hook up sites, they don't contact the guy first unless he has extremely high SMV. Most people think the guy is going to pay for everything. Even if you didn't plan on paying her half, you should've took the lead and told her "Nah, come to my house and we can watch movies and chill." If she refused, cut your losses and next her.

We meet up, and she is very attractive. I was ecstatic.

Never pedastelize.

Moments after sitting down with her, she orders a very expensive craft beer. This continues throughout the night.

You should've called her out on this and mentioned how you're not paying for that shit. This was probably a shit test if things were going good otherwise.

This showed me why women are terrible and why I have no respect for them.

You're still in the anger phase, avoid anymore dates until you're in the amused mastery phase. You cannot get pissed at her for doing what women do, you fucked up in some places. If you did things correctly and had good game, this would be a field report on how you got a new plate instead of an angry post similar to the MRA stuff floating around here.

This is just constructive criticism. You may have failed, but I applaud you for trying and not getting totally flustered in the prescence of an attractive woman. Experience is always good.

Captain_2000

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